How can i make him understand

I told my fiance that I dont want to move in with him but he refuses to listen he always asks why..but the reason is because I think I need my own family during my pregnancy what should I tell him to make him understand?

tell him the reason and also tell him that you need him too. but you want to be able to be with someone that has also has a kid and knows what they are doing and how to handle it.

what you mean? the person im with or the person who takes me to the doctor?

Ok, let him know then, he is not going to kill you over a desicion, maybe you can work something out after the baby is born and fiance, 14 years old? pregnant, Im not judging, but this is what teen sex can do to you..anyways, good luck.

xx.
superfesh.

what sytstembreaker, ment was that you should tell your boyfriend as much as you need his support with the baby, you'd like to be with your family (your mom, who's had experiance of being pregnant and giving birth) - and I tottally agree with him!! your mom knows you the best, and she's proablly the one who can coach you through your whole pregnancy - for someone who's 14... you need someone who's experianced it all!!

I agree with systembreaker and superfresh. Also tell him that you are a girl in the midst of the worst possible female hormones of your life and you need other women who understand how to work those hormones out and keep you calm. You need a large support system (as in not one person), to help you and pamper you and teach you and make sure that you eat healthy even when you'd rather eat bad. He can't do it all, he's only one person, and he probably works. Tell him it would be different if there were two of him that had been there since nine months before your birth it would be a different story, but since he isn't, you have to go out with two parents who have been there.

Stay w/your family. Its a simple enough solution. your young. Too young. Dont go w/him. Let your family take care of you and your baby. And for the future, use protection. your so young and having this baby. you already have issues and problems and havent even given birth yet. Take your time and take the next few years to raise your baby and you will for sure experience different feelings and emotions and perhaps wont even want to be w/your boyfriend anymore. So much changes in these years and your having a baby! Imagine if your daughter were to have a baby at 14. How would you feel? react? guide her? etc...u have to now grow up fast. Just get educated and read and do the best for urself rite now. Get rid of him..hes a user and too violent. you dont need that!

how old is he?

he is 21

no offence babe he should respect your wishes if you say no it should be no he shouldnt try and force you to do stuff you dont want to do

hows you keeping hunny?

what do you mean?