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How can i get over shyness?

Asked by chris85 4 months ago, 5 answers.

Im wondering people how can I get over my shyness? I have a lot of talent in sports but I cant figure out why im so shy to try out for a team. I thank im worried so much of being judged. What should I do?

Answered by just_sarah on Jul 03, 2009, 01:28AM
58 answers

Try telling yourself The worst they can do is say No

Bring a friend along and have them encourage you.

Or imagine it as a practice and not the real thing, sometimes that works for me when I play recitals.

Answered by lostunderdepression on Jul 03, 2009, 01:32AM
24 answers

just get out there and try it

its not like they no you

or thyr part of your family

just remember ot pretent you dont no them

because they wud have no rite to judge

and you shudnt care what people think of you its un healthy unless its good

Answered by jqzp on Jul 03, 2009, 01:32AM
182 answers

just chillax happy
...people will think what they want... in time you'll learn that that doesnt really matter at all... and all that really matters is how much fun you had, and what you think.

just realize that you are JUST AS GOOD as the person standing next to you. nobody can put you in your place unless you allow them to.

remember... those who mind, dont matter... and those who matter, dont mind!

its all just a matter of accepting yourself and not caring what others think of you.

...personally... if your shy... that tends to mean low-confidence on one level or another... my best advice for that would be to FAKE IT!
yes, thats right... FAKE having confidence!
people cant tell if its real or not. if you can fake believing in yourself... you eventually will end up believing it! give it a try happy it cant hurt!

...people are attracted to confidence... and the chances are... if your being a confident, strong, poilte and caring young lady... success will find you in whatever you do.

you get out of it what you put into it...

Answered by lookingglass89 on Jul 03, 2009, 01:32AM
101 answers

Go for it, don't be embarrased. Just laugh it off, I mean, seriously, whats the worst that could happen. Let yourself go and be confident. Just do it!!!

Answered by 2cool on Jul 03, 2009, 09:53AM
65 answers

THE BEST WAY I CAN TELL you I'MM IN BUSINESS MEANING THAT I HAVE TO TALK IN FRONT OF POEPLE a lot .

TRY TO I don't know AUDICTION IN FRONT OF your FRIENDS OR PARENTS . OR GO WITH A FRIENDS

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