How can i get over or move on from losing a baby

I was only young when I became pregnant, it wasn't planned, and I didn't even wnna have sex, but my boyfriend at the time, sort of pressured me.
Anyway, we did, and a while later I noticed myself feeling really weird, and sick, I knew the symptoms near...

enough, but I never knew anything really, educational wise bout that stuff.
Anyway, when it was confirmed that I was pregnant, I was actually happy, but scared cause of what would I tell my family, and my boyfriend.
I was nurveous and tried to work myself up to it.
But I didn't need to worry, cause I wouldn't have to tell them, someone hurt me, and in doing so, I lost the baby.
I was devastated but never really registerd untill I was a bit older.
And I still haven't gotten over it, it affects me all the time, and now I have other problems because of it.
Also that is another reason why I believe I can't have more kids.
Basicly I whant to know what can I do, how can I let it go.
Or for the pain to stop.

When I was 15 I had a boyfriend that physically and emotionally abused me. 8 months into the relationship I found out that I was pregnant...I was scared and confused...While I was having sex with him, there were still times that he forced me, the pregnancy resulted from one of those times. Anyway, 1 month exactly after I found out I was pregnant I had a miscarriage...the result of my boyfriend deciding that he didn't want to be a father and proceeding to punch and kick my stomach for about a half hour (until one of his friends walked in and stopped him). By that time it was too late as I was already bleeding.

Now I am married with 3 wonderful beautiful children (they are on the picture) but I will never forget the baby that I should of been allowed to have.

It is hard...very hard...to get over it and I really don't think that I will ever get over it but you can move on from it. You will always remember and you will always grieve for what could of been. The pain will also always be there but it will lessen with time. As for not being able to have children, I don't know what to tell you except to get a doctor's opinion, maybe you are worrying for nothing. If you won't be able to carry your own child there is always adoption (I know it's not the same) but imagine being able to help out some other young terrfied mother by raising her child.

Good luck and keep your head up, things will get easier with time. And talking to people always helps, at first it will be hard to do but it will also get easier with time.

I dont think any one can give you an explanation on how to get over it. I suppose it will ease over time and you just have to slowly and in your own time let go. x x x

That is a hard thing to go through. When people in my family have misscarriages they mope around for a long time. But, I'm sure you're baby is just fine in Heaven now. I know the only thing that has curred people in my family of loosing a baby is actually trying and getting another baby. If you can't have babies anymore you can always adopt one when you are ready. I'm sorry you lost your baby.

thnx everyone for your advice, and input, it helps, and I'm sorry, for all that nasty stuff that happend to you colethky, and every other girl and woman out there.
it's just horrible, but I suppose, mayb some things are just ment to be, and I have to move on, as hard as that will be.
not even my family knows, I would never tell them, but the secret hurts just as much.
never mind, there's a reason for everything, and hopfully my baby along with all the other children are in heaven and at peace.

you cant.