How can i get him to stop texting other girls and asking for pics?

Im 7mos preg w/my fiance's child and we're going to get married soon. Problem is he's always collecting other girls' numbers and discretely txting them and they keep asking for certain pix. I tried to confront him but he spun the tables on me and made me...

feel bad about having guy friends (that I no longer talk to). How can I get him to stop talking to the other girls without offending him?

You cant make him stop - nothing you say is going to make him stop being him. That is clearly in his nature to put himself out like that. I can just imagine the things hes doing that you don't know about. Of course hes going to try and make you feel bad, so that you'll stop bringing it up. I really suggest you putting off the wedding, because marriage right now just isn't going to work. He needs to figure out what he wants, because clearly right now he doesn't know. If he truly wanted tie the knot to be with your forever, he wouldn't be doing this to you. Hes getting the best of both worlds right now and you need to put an end to it. Theres no logical reason to get married to someone doing this, your setting yourself up to get hurt. If you let him go right now, I can almost guarantee he'd have a new girlfriend within two weeks and you'd realize what hes all about. Don't do this to yourself, and most of all... don't do this to your child.

all the classic signs of a cheater, sorry. its alway's discretely talking to other girls, girl finds out and confronts him. he gets offensive and turns it on the girl, girl feels bad and hesitates on what to do next. if I had a penny every time I've seen that. F*ck trying not to offend him, your pregnant and he's discretely talking to other girls. you should be his main concern, obviously he doesn't have his priorities straight. I doubt you'll be able to get him to stop. and I agree with stephanie, you do not want to marry this guy, at least not yet. I've seen the exact same thing a thousand times, stories alway's the same.
dam, and I just read your other question, a guy cannot go without some kind of action for a month, its impossible unless he's jerkin it

This guy isnt ready to be a husband, let alone a daddy. Open your eyes girl, because there are so many red flags. You need to get a back bone, and start standing up to him instead of being afraid you'll offend him. This sounds more like a middle school relationship. You cant talk to guys? Half the population is male! You want him to stop talking to girls? Thats just immature...
You two need to seek counseling, or this relationship will never make it to the alter.