How can i get him to say he loves me?

After 9 months, my boyfriend still hasn#039;t said he loves me. He shows me in a million ways, and is very good to me, but the words never come out. We are committed, see each other often, and I really think he does love me. Help--I keep being tempted...

to say it to him, but I want to hear it!

ima guy... ill tell you right now if he shows you he prob meens it... the reason he hasnt said it yet is prob the reason I diddnt say it to my girlfriend for a long time... HES REAL FREEKIN SHY!!... lol

I also have a bofriend been going out for 7months now and he has never said that he loves me... when I had the gutts to ask him he said that he barely knew me and that he wasnt ready to say so yet . I hope he will soon but if he doesnt and he is not ready in a years time ill just move on!! you too !!

if you say it first, he'll most likely say it back... him saying it first is like... climbing a tall, very skinny tree... it looks like it could snap if you try to climb it, but if you are able to, you feel very good... If he does say it first, MAKE SURE YOU SAY IT BACK AND HE KNOWS THAT YOU SAID IT!!!

if you want it right now,say it and see what he does.
OR-
just make sure he knows You do(without saying it),and make sure he knows your
not going to just leave him,and are there for him. that way he knows how you feel,and
it may make it easier for Him to feel comfortable with saying it.

also,has he ever said it to anyone(or felt like that),and maybe got hurt.

okay... well you can't MAKE him say he loves you. Maybe he's trying to figure it out for himself. I mean, think about it... do you want him to say that he loves you, if he doesn't mean it. I've only said I love you to ONE guy, and he said it back, and I knew he meant it... we went out for almost 2 years before we said it, we both wanted to make sure we really did love each other before we said it. My mom made me break up with him, because she didn't like the fact that he had a record, even though he had changed a lot since then, but she didn't care, she made me break up with him and it sucked so bad... but we still talk, ALL the time... and we've planned that when I turn 18 I'm going to live with him, and my parents can't stop me.He was my first kiss, first pretty much everything... but me and him never had sex, because he knew I wasn't ready, and he told me he would wait for me. After we broke up, we decided to see other people, but soon realized it wouldn't really work, because we still loved each other. and to this day I still love him. but give your man time, let him decided when HE'S ready to say I love you, don't rush it... okay.?!?!

you can't make him say he loves you. you just have to wait until he is ready.

It took me a really long time to tell her I loved her because I was afraid she wouldn't say it back... I finaly told her and I think it was one of the happiest nights of my life

ask him hunn its not that hard!

Hi I been in a 9month relationship also and he has not yet said I lOvE you yet, Im in no rush, I really feel in my heart that he loves me, He shows it 100% he makes a million comments about how he loves my eyes, lips, I mean he says he loves everything about us... So I know he is just waiting for the right momment to tell me... I have not yet said anything either, I will wait for him to make the first move to tell me...I do feel that Im in love with him, But I love the fact that we are talking our time to tell eachother...

After 17 years of friendship, an ex lover wrote to me via email and wrote I LOVE YOU!!! Kisses. I've always known that he was into me, we've always had amazing chemistry, but he NEVER TOLD ME THAT HE LOVES ME UNTIL RECENTLY. Reading those words blew me away and I am still on a nutural high from it. Ofcourse, I wrote back and told him that I love him too!!! More than you'll ever know. I don't know, I felt obligated. But no really obligated, because I have been in love with this person forever. But I did give up on him a few years ago, because I just felt that our relationship was not going anywhere really for many reasons I believed. So I have learned a very important thing recently, when someone is ready to tell you that they love you, they will. It can take decades, but they will tell you when the time is right. You cannot force someone to tell you, because if you do...it is not coming out of them, but out of you --- you that forced them to tell you pretty much.