How can i get him back?

Hello my name is rola , I 've been with my boyfriend for 2 years we were very happy the last few month we had some downs , he was having problems at work and college , and I was very selfish I didnt try to understand whats going on , I was only thinking...

about myself , I was very cruel , so I decided to end the relationship , but after I while I relaized how much wrong I was , I love him so much , I tried to get him back but he refused , he said that he got over me and doesnt love me anymore in the 2 weeks after the brake up , but I just cant understand how , he told me to leave him alone to be at peace with himself , but I have changed now I admited how much I was wrong and selfish I dont want to be this person anymore , I want to love him and make him happy , I just need a chance to show him how much he means to me , how much I respect him and will love him till I die , what should I do its been 3 month im suffering from this brake up , I love him deeply I cant and dont want to be with anyone else , how can I win him back , how can I prove that I have changed , I given him now a space I want to show him that im not selfish anymore im steping on my heart and stoped calling him cz he dosent want to contact me or see me I want him to be happy , but im afraid that he's going to stay away , how can I make him want me again , I love him so much and im willing to do everything , im suffering please help me please im despret. Thank u.

If you want him back become his friend again. I dated a girl for two years, and when I wanted her I just became her friend and old habits and feelings would spark up! If he dosent flirt with you start sending him little clues, and if none of that works, tell him you want him back! Try it out and tell me how it goes :D