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How can i gain self confidence and accept the fact that im ugly?

Asked by jadie 21 days ago, 15 answers.

I really hate myself, especially the way I look like. I've got a huge nose that makes me look like a moster. usually I fall asleep crying. I try to look better by putting make up on my face and taking care of my hair but I still look horrible. anyway...

there are some guys interested on me but never the ones I want. its not that im very very ugly but I want so much 2 b beautiful. I just keep imagining of how easy would my life b if I were beautiful. the thing I want more is 2 dissappear, 2 die. my life sux and I dont know how 2 make it better. is there anyone who can help me, anyone who can tell me how to feel better about myself.
and if you have any beauty tips please write them even why I know that there is no remedy for me except surgery.

Answered by dre on Oct 31, 2009, 10:33AM
161 answers

I feel the same way..but I dont think you even near ugly at all. =]..its just you thinking that you ugly.

Answered by hockey_star75 on Oct 31, 2009, 11:19AM
159 answers

WTF.. your NOT UGLY WTF.. your NOSE IS FINE I swear if you think your ugly then you havent seen ugly.. I think your pretty k now relax.. and you think your life suks because your ugly? really you need to just chill because your pretty=)

Answered by disneyworld on Oct 31, 2009, 11:38AM
156 answers

your not ugly!! usually when people put on too much makeup then they look kinda fake. maybe try using blush, mascara, I like using black eyeliner. and lipgloss! also, eat fruits, veggies, and drink plenty of water. drinking water is said to enhance appearance, so drink plenty of water instead of lemonade or soda

Answered by stresshead on Oct 31, 2009, 11:55AM
17 answers

I can't believe you have such low self esteem! your not ugly, honestly!!! Do you really think that your life would be easy just if you were pretty? That is certainly not the case! And how can you define beautiful anyway? People percieve beautiful in different ways! Your life cant suck, think of a poor african with no job, crap healthcare etc.! Please don't say you want to disapear or die!!! how can you say that? YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND UNIQUE!!!

My mother always says that sleep is the best cure for literally everything, and I guess shes right as it repairs your cells etc, so you'll look fresher and not have any bags under your eyes! (not that you have any, unlike me!) Cleanse tone and moisturise every morning and night with gd products that are dermatalogically tested, or don't have any nasty chemicals in them! drink plenty of water and eat lots of fruit and veg!!

How can you expect to fully love another person if you cant even love yourself? People are generally attracted to confident (not cocky) people! People don't really enjoy being around depressing people so SMILE and be happy or at least show yourself as happy!

Have faith in yourself girl!!! xxx

Answered by youcancallmejess on Oct 31, 2009, 11:59AM
725 answers

Haha you're really pretty...
If you're ugly...
=S
What does that make me?

Hideous. lol =]

Answered by question01 on Oct 31, 2009, 01:32PM
233 answers

I agree with everyone here if you think your ugly then most people are too because you really don't seem to be ugly to me you look pretty. You have a very beautiful face nice lips and eyes and nose so I really don't know what makes you think your ugly because your not.

Answered by halflife2fan on Oct 31, 2009, 07:19PM
44 answers

I really hope thats not how you really feel because you are SEXY!!! Hot Damn!!

Answered by ryan5808 on Nov 01, 2009, 06:19AM
11 answers

your really pretty... your nose isnt even that big, mines is way bigger,,,lol,,, but I get you on the part wher you dont get the guys you want.. im on the same boat, but I realize that if you cant get them , then its for a reason... the guy that you end up with and is meant for you is gonna make you feel like the most beautiful girl in the world

Answered by cuteybooty on Nov 01, 2009, 09:42AM
21 answers

Let me tell you something hun... HIGH HEELS!!! Get some! They make me feel sexy as hell!!! and I wear them everyday!!! Being beautiful hurts but hey... you get use to it. Im not being cocky Im just telling you how it is. Your deff not ugly hun! Your appearance is beautiful! But being able to determine beautiful comes from someones attitude and personality. So hold your head high, put on those high heels, and strut your stuff woman! LOL O and by the way... I wouldnt change anything about your face. : ) My bff is a guy and he tells me that guys are attracted to a girl with confidence.

Answered by cambei on Nov 01, 2009, 10:16AM
356 answers

The reason you think you are ugly is because your perception of beauty if off. You think being beautiful makes life easier?
You're beautiful now and is your life easy?
It doesn't sound like it.
The world and the media are telling you that you have to be better, and that nothing is ever enough.
It doesn't matter what you look like. I mean really think about that. The only thing good looks will get you is a modeling job and a shallow date.
Looks do not mean talent. Talent stands by itself and you should focus on finding that, on using that. Focus on being happy with what you have. You have a lot more than you see right now.
Let me tell you I am about 4 times uglier than you and I'm also 10 billion times happier. Isn't that interesting...
When you don't give a flying hamster about what the world WANTS you to be, about what you think you should be, then life is happier. Life is so much better.
Know that you are 1 person who can do anything. A person who can do what she wants in life and get the job she wants, and the love.

'Yeah Darling go make it happen,
take the WORLD in a love embrace'.

That's a quote from the song Born To Be Wild.
It's saying love the world for what it is. The world is not perfect. They will judge and be judged, until people stop judging and stop caring. Love the world and it will love you back. Those who don't like you and those who hate you, just ignore them. Forget about them because it's impossible to please everyone. We are all so different, that is why.

Answered by katgores on Nov 01, 2009, 10:37AM
81 answers

What the heck are you talking about. You're GORGEOUS from what I see. I have the same kind of issues. But you just have to learn that you are beautiful on the inside and outside. I had problems feeling good about myself so I just started wearing makeup and clothes that I really liked and what I know looked good on me. That's all you can really do. But you are gorgeous. If I were a dude I'd date you.

Answered by ditziwt21694 on Nov 01, 2009, 01:39PM
27 answers

lmaoo huh??? you are not ugly! You are very attractivee

Answered by j_a_s on Nov 02, 2009, 01:13PM
141 answers

haha
what?
I dont think I understand the question

Answered by sq7 on Nov 04, 2009, 03:27PM
108 answers

well no one is ugly each person has different things they like in someone and NO MATTER how you look people love you, and NO WAY IN HEEELLL your ugly

Answered by amo_sc on Nov 18, 2009, 07:44AM
31 answers

You look the way you look. Be happy with what you got and just think, it could be worse.

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