How can i finger my girlfriend if she is a virgin?

well im with my girl friend over one year and we love eachother and happy with eachother we go some times to our house she is a virgin so I can t do anything because of religion and all but also we aren t ready to have sex now maybe in the futur but when...

we go home in the bed I try to finger her some times she comes sometimes no she feels nothing I really don t know why she tells me maybe she is the probleme but I don t think so im sure im who is doing mistakes but she likes to give me an head I like it ok but when we finish and if she didn t had organsm I become mad I don t like it I really wish I could make her come and not only one time because when I do it she comes 1 time she tells me even if I would try the second time she get some good fellings she says but she doesnt come whose fault is it please help I really want to see her happy and come

ok? oral is still sex! technicly you 2 are now longer virginz

but hey I don t understand can t I just finger her if she is a virgin or not?? because I done it so many times but sometimes she doesn t come and I feel bad than after...hmmm is that normal???

LMAO. he said some see her happy and come. LMAO. neways, I dont know, NOT all the girls are the same, some only do the deed ONCE. some do it more than once ya never know what your dealing with... :l

it's neither of your faults, it's just how her body works. just try to do something different the uh 2nd time you try to do it, and find out some new techniques I guess. don't be so hard on yourself, lol.

some girls and boys are sexless in which they are not sexually active so don't worried bout it its natural, all boys and girls are not the same, just be faithful and honest to her and she might tell you everything bout her. Happy to help.

your scared which means your not ready. Your 13 sweetie, and follow your feelings.

w0w rockyourworld, you are hurting his feeling instead of helping out, huh?

the first person that cominted is a idiot. She is still a vergin untill you have true all the way sex. Just cheak sites on it they will tell you the truth. -j

~If her g-spot is accessible then she wouldn't be a virgin mym~

Wrong - please don't ever have sex.

Have you tried the G-Spot Or licking, Rubbing, and flicking the Clint with your tounge?

It's a CLIT, like clitoritis. - please don't ever have sex.

And as for the original poster, that question doesn't even make sense. Fingering your girlfriend will not take her virginity. Only having actual penis to vagina intercourse can take your virginity. And I'm sorry but, if you are asking that, or all the other things you are confused about, you are MUCH to young to be even thinking about having sex. Wait til you grow up a little, then you'll be able to answer these questions on your own or with your partner.

dude if you love someone your feeling do the talking

its neither of your guyses fault I dont think she is redy. if she acts like she dont feel a thing then she dont want it being done to her! but I think you too shuld tlk about it.

Yeah, you can finger her if shes a virgin just make sure shes quite wet (maybe you should even use some lube). It will feel a bit uncomfortable at first (start with one finger and move up when shes ready) but many hymens wear away over time so she may not even have one, especially if she uses tampons. And it is possible that she doesn't feel much. The nerve endings up there aren't meant to be super sensitive or else childbirth would be about 100 times worse, thats also the reason that a female can have a tampon in and not even realize that its up there. if you just wanna make her cum go for the clitoris, you don't even have to enter her for that because the truth is, a female doesn't orgasm like a guy does, they rarely do while your inside of them, they have to be in somewhat the right mood and it takes longer to build up to it. And also, when she first starts experiencing them, they are going to be rather small, they will get more intense over time.
And its not 'her fault' her body needs time to adjust to something like that and takes more than 5 minutes to do that. Like if you both started having intercourse shes not going to enjoy that the first few times either. ITS NORMAL
By the way, oral SEX is SEX.
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oral sex is no more sex than makin out or fingerin alright quit trying ta guilt trip him into stoppin jeeze

Hey I'm a guy too mabye you should try eating her out. I'm shore she will come

ok listen I had the same situation happen to me I did fingered her berfore penetrating yes it felt good for me but she went through a lot of pain I say just have sex and get over it and start enjoying it !!!

no no no, you are still virgins! to not be a virgin you have to have had SEXUALE INTERCOURSE.. and yeah check the definition in the dictionary! Penis in vagina.. not finger in vagina, not tongue... PENIS. you are still viirgins dont listen to people who say other wise, and to your question im not too sure, try rubbing her first.. like over her pants or knickers, then go in and up she should hopefulyl enjoy that, x

omfg don't start out crazy
my boyfriend did that to me and I cudnt walk for days and I bled because he ripped the skin off
sfter ihealed he got better
start slow wit one finger and then get two and still go slow and ask the first few times if you can go fast and after that ull know when you cant or can
try to get in 3 eventually
she gotta be really really wet
and that guy is stupid your still virgins

don't finger her for awhile lim aweek or two and then when you do it shell love it sooo much