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How can i cheer him up and can opposites truely attract?

Asked by cryingkitten 21 days ago, 2 answers.

My boyfriend and I have been haveing a bit of a rocky relationship lately. Every so often he becomes very hopeless and feels like we cannot grow, yet he dosent break our relationship and I certainly dont want to either. We can usually patch things up but...

lately the arguements have ben occuring more often and just this evening, we had a rather bumpy argument through instant messageing and whenever he is angry at me he signs off without letting me say good-bye. I cant call him late at night because we are quite different. Hes an early bird and I'm a night owl, in fact we practically polar opposites wich makes it seem strange that we get along at all. Hes picky when it comes to food while I'm not, he loves sports, and sports bore me, I draw, he writes, he's logical and I'm illogical, hes so super smart and I'm so super dumb, he goes to work, I go to school, hes beyound handsome, and I'm the biggest geek ever lol. I hear that opposites attract and I am wondering if thats true and I really hate it when we fight. he had recently asks me to take pictues of myself in my pjs (Note: not skankalicious pjs I'm a nerd and dont dress that way for one and cant pull it off either lol) and he also wanted me to take pictues of myself wearing a flufy hat that I have with cat ears, (I'm an incredibly geek and proud of it) do you suppose that if I do this for him it will help us get through this rough patch?

"We will break you..." Answered by angryrussian on Nov 01, 2009, 04:44AM
25 answers

well be careful there. If he starts asking for naughty pics, the relationship may not be worth it. But yes, polar opposites do attract, although it takes tons of time and effort. For example, I'm communist and my best friend is hardcore Republican! If both of you want it to work, try your hardest to find at least one thing you agree on. Then, when you two argue, you have that common ground to come back to. Fun mail me if you still want help.

Answered by bobbyjess on Nov 06, 2009, 11:56PM

I am in a relation ship much like yours except I have no job but my girlfriend goes to school but we talk on the phone all the time and I argue a lot BUT I always compromies in some way and in my opinion if he loves you he will do the same as for the pics he is probly like me I have probly 30 pics of my girlfriend and friends say my room is a shrine and I am proud of that and I want more and more pics and none of the ones I have are naughty so the pics I would consider a good thing and give them to him if you are comfortibal

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