How can I bear the pain

I'm A virgin and when I try to finger myself it sort of hurts with one or more fingers I mean I can bear it with one, but what about when I get with a guy and his pen*s is bigger. How can I slowly learn to bear the pain? I mean I don't want to bleed my first time.

all you have to do is get used to it. Finger urself more and do it regularly so your hole will get bigger gradually.

try using some other object. that is bigger but not to big and slowly just work your way to using something bigger. just keep doing it and eventually it won't hurt as much. if you do it on a regular basis that will help it go quicker too...

Don not want not to bleed during your 1st time, OK? The pain is not unbearable, beleive me, even, if you are really turned on, and your partner is OK in the bed, you will org**m a reallay big one..I mean you will feel happy..

9 out of 10 women bleed a little their first time. Im a man but thats what I've heard a lot from women and seen from my experience with the two virgins I've had the pleasure to have sex with. WAY, WAY back in the days. lol. Secondly, it wont hurt near as much as you think when you are TRULY ready. When you really are ready to have sex you'll get so wet that it'll slide in much easier than you think and it'll feel better than it hurts. If youre so scared that your going to bleed or its going to hurt then don't give up your virginity yet. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH KEEPING YOURSELF UNTIL YOU ARE READY. If the boy/ man your with gets mad then he probably doesnt really love you and doesnt deserve to be the one you give it to. If ANY girl/ woman tells you different then she's probably a slut and misery loves company. I can't believe I'm saying this but remember once you give it you'll NEVER get it back. So make sure you give it to someone special who's willing to wait on you.

Dont worry to much, it doesnt hurt that bad, make sure when you get with a guy he takes things slowly and you use lots of lube otherwise it will hurt, the more times you do it the better it ends up feeling so dont stress to much