Hooking up with multiple guys, yet likes me?

Counter Strike for Life Asked by wydog about 1 year ago, 8 answers.

Hey Everybody, I simply do not know what to do. I am in high school, and really into this one chick. We have hooked up twice now, and I do hang out with her somewhat often. She is rather on the wild side, and hooks up with guys all the time. We have...

talked about it, and she feels that she likes me but does not want to make a relationship out of it because she knows she would cheat on me, and end up hooking up with other guys like she is now. I know she also goes back to this one guy a lot, and they went out for a number of months. Now, I know she will hook up with other guys, but we are hanging out now more than ever before. I have gained more and more of her trust and I've had a crush on this girl for almost a year... I don't want to blow my shot. Now should I continue hooking up with her or should I stop because It wont go anywhere?

elevator Answered by captainassassin on Jun 22, 2008, 05:11PM
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...you have a crush on a slut? How precious. It happens.

Well, it won't go anywhere, like she said. You're just setting yourself up to get hurt. Ideally you should stop poking her; to loosen the emotional attachment you have, and because of the risk of STDs, since she likes to sleep around. But if you're using condoms, I guess you can feel free to keep on nailing her, since she's always open for business.

That is until you, or one of the other guys knocks her up.

Hmm... what are the odds?

Answered by angelfire2708 on Jun 22, 2008, 05:28PM
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*you gained more more of her trust*
How do you trust a girl that sleeps around, and cant commit?

She isnt someone to date, only someone to have fun with! ALWAYS USE CONDOMS! Unless you want something else from her.

Counter Strike for Life Answered by wydog on Jun 22, 2008, 05:52PM

Hahha we haven't had sex. I would have already dropped this subject... but she has been showing interest in me and like I said we have been hanging out more than ever. Is it possible that evenutally we could have a relationship If I stick it out and spend more time with her? She has been in long term relationships like I said. Okay so she does mess around with other guys every now and then, but shes not a total slut .

before going out. Answered by layashea on Jun 22, 2008, 06:44PM
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it's sweet that you still want to date her, but you cant change someone unless they want to change.
although this is easier said than done, I'd try not to get to attached.. because even if she says she's totally committed to you, are you really going to be able to trust her?
why set yourself up for disappointment?

elevator Answered by captainassassin on Jun 22, 2008, 07:36PM
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***Hahha we haven't had sex.***

Then... what did you mean by this?? ***We have hooked up twice now...***

me Pic!! Answered by hbvb002 on Jun 22, 2008, 10:37PM
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umm to captainassassin, some people classfy sex dfferently. he prob meens hooked up like oral. and he prob doesnt want to go all the way bc he doesnt want to set himself up 4 dissapointment
ps. its all sex

elevator Answered by captainassassin on Jun 23, 2008, 07:43PM
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...well... he should be more specific then.

Answered by angelfire2708 on Jun 24, 2008, 03:32PM
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Well, she may not be a total slut, but she is pretty easy.

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