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Hooking up..

yeaah Asked by danielleee about 1 year ago, 8 answers.

so...okay I know I'm 15 but leave me the hell alone if youre going to make fun of me because I've never hooked up before, go away.
so I'm not prude...I don't think...I like skipped a step...I've been fingered but I've never hooked up. everytime my...

boyfriend trys to hookup with me I turn away or start talking.
I seriously have some weird issues about it. he's coming over soon. I don't know what to do. my friend has tried teaching me...but I can't do it! first of all I'm way too scared second I don't know how to! ugh. f*ckmylife.
I don't know...someone help me.

Answered by la16love on Nov 15, 2008, 02:16PM
334 answers

Im 16 and the last time I kissed a guy was in 6th grade and it was on the cheak.
dont get me wroung im not ugly lol. I just find it more fun and less trouable. so I know how you feel.

but anyways, I dont know how to hook up. but theres a guy who wants to go out wit me so we talk a lot.
and I told him that I have never hooked up be4, and I told him that I dont know how to.
and he was fine with it, he told me that he would show me how. lol
Just talk to your guy, tell him you dont know how to, he should be fine with it. if not then hes a jerk.

good luck

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Answered by la16love on Nov 15, 2008, 02:16PM
334 answers

Im 16 and the last time I kissed a guy was in 6th grade and it was on the cheak.
dont get me wroung im not ugly lol. I just find it more fun and less trouable. so I know how you feel.

but anyways, I dont know how to hook up. but theres a guy who wants to go out wit me so we talk a lot.
and I told him that I have never hooked up be4, and I told him that I dont know how to.
and he was fine with it, he told me that he would show me how. lol
Just talk to your guy, tell him you dont know how to, he should be fine with it. if not then hes a jerk.

good luck

me and my dog Answered by butterflygirl_33 on Nov 15, 2008, 02:31PM
122 answers

wish I could help but im in the same dilema..bummer

Answered by jes3ss432 on Nov 15, 2008, 03:58PM
9 answers

well...its really just a breeze so dont stress about it. just make sure not to bite his tounge and massage your tounge with his tounge and it will be like a flowing motion. if your not too aggressive then you cant really do it wrong. my friends boyfriend said she was terrible at hooking up, but now they hook up all the time cause they got used to eachothers technique and he still loved her anyways. you'll be fine and good luck!!

superfresh. Answered by superfresh on Nov 15, 2008, 04:03PM
1444 answers

Lol.. your silly, but maybe you just need to relax, and take things slow.. if you tell your boyfriend.. if your that comfortable with him, then maybe he might tell you or give you some hepful advice.. good luck..
xx.
superfresh.

Answered by flowpow75 on Nov 15, 2008, 05:01PM
41 answers

basiclly just do what he does, everyone hooks up in different ways and has different techniques. when I got a new boyfriend it was really weird becasue he kissed so differently, but we just got used to it. if youre nervous just tell him you dont know how but you want to leanr but youre afraid youll be bad. then try, just repeat what he does and if he goes slowly youll feel the rhythm and youll figure it out. dont even worry about tongues yet. its not hard just relax, thats the most important part

yeaah Answered by danielleee on Nov 16, 2008, 07:04AM
362 answers

thanks everyone.
so I hooked up with him last night, but I know I was horrriblee.
my teeth kept getting in the way.

Answered by bellax3italian75 on Mar 25, 2009, 02:39AM
11 answers

I don't know how old this and if you still need the advice but I just turned 15 and I've hooked up several times, its not a matter of knowing what to do. its more like going with the flow. yoi have to relaz and have fun let him start off and go along with him if your nervous your definetly going to mess up try to have fun and not think so hard it really does help! I was scared my first time too and while I was giving him head my teeth did get in the way, some advice is when your a beginner at giving head keep your mouth wide open and make sure to keep your tongue on top of your bottom teeth and dont close your mouth instead of that move your tongue around so that he feels something on the top too. I dont know if this really helped but you just gotta have fun while hooking up everyone does different things in different ways no one can really answer that for you. its what your in the mood for, and just how it goes and really how turned on you and your man are.

good luck girl.
I hope I helped :]

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