Has he lost interest?

Bascily, theres this guy called Ben. Hes not the -best- looking guy of all time but, hes so cute and funny, he always seems to be able to make me lauff. He asked me out a few weeks ago, I said no because I hradly kew him. But as time passed I felt my...

self growing on him. I told him a few days ago I liked him too. He said he was really comufsed about it now, but he did still like me. He said he wonted to meet up with me Monday to talk about us I didn't even think we where an us. But we never did meet. We havn't spoken scince. His mate spent the hole of last nights party going on about how much Ben likes me and how we should get together. But Joe (His mate) Also told me Ben will be really shy around me because he's not very girl experanced and he knows I'm not a vrigin.

But yeah he hasn't texted me or rang me, noor have you even hardly spoken.

Has he lost all intested or what? Any ideas what to do?

He's probably just feels intimidated by your experiance. is feeling extra cautious around you cause you rejected him the first time.
All guys are nervous, it's like the whole spider theory of them being more afraid of you then you are of them.
Call him, and just talk, put him at ease. Shy guys are hard work but if he's as cute and funny as you say he is it'll be worth it.

A lot of the time in a situation like this, the guy probably really does like you, but he isn't talking to you because he doesn't know what to say... He's a guy. we're all like that. A good looking girl comes in, and our brains leave. anyways. Just either talk to him on the phone or go talk to him in person... depending on his personality. It seems like he might be more comfortable in person but that is for you to determine. If his mates are telling you he's just shy and that he really does like you, then go ask him about it. and if he says anything along the lines of I'm just confused about it all again just tell him to talk to you and maybe you can work it out with him... If he says stuff and sorta looks away from you when he talks its probably because A. he would lose his train of thought when seeing you, or B. he doesn't want to blush and get embarrassed. ( most guys aren't like this but since he is the shy type he probably is) try and get him to talk to you, not away from you because it helps build connection. also try and lighten the mood ( not too much, you still want to have a serious talk with him, but just enough so he's not uncomfortable.) If he's like any of the shy guys that I know just help him get to know you and he'll open up more... If there's anything else you want to know just funmail me about it... Best of luck