Hit on me

Hi, my friend hit me cause I found out that he was cheating on his girlfriend. he told me if I ever told her that he would kick my ass, and I believe him, but I don't want to see m friend get hurt. I don't want to sit back and pretend that he likes her...

when he is cheating on her. What should I do. I do hate the fact that he hit me, but now all my friends are asking me what happened to my stomach. I hope it goes away soon, but I thought that guys weren't suppose to hit girls, maybe that is just a saying. Well if you have any advice I would love to know right now.

Thanks,

Laura

If he is truly your friend he wouldn't have hit you. I would suggest that you distance yourself from him, and tell the friends you trust as your own about what happened as well as any authority figures in your life. Mostly just stay away from the guy he is not your friend if he can hurt you in any way.

Dear Laura,
This guy does not deserve you as a friend. He obviously does not care for your friend. If he has hit you then there is a risk that he could hurt your friend too. Look out for your friend and warn her about his behaviour. If he harms anyone again, call the police as a last resort.

You need to stand up for yourself. He cant tell you what you can and cant do! Tell him if he ever hits you again, he better be watching his back! You have every right to tell his gf that he is cheating on her.She also needs to know what he did to you if you ever told her! He cant tell you what you can and cant do! Some people would say to stay out of it, its not your business, but thats there opinion. If someones cheating on them, i think they have every right to know!! They can choose to believe it or not! Your right hunguys arent suppose to hit girls, but boys do!!

you don't need to have a friend that is probably 2 times your size hitting!!!! get a new friend!!! and you need to tell his girlfriend what he is doing because thats not fair for her!!!!!!!!!! and you need to stay away from him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Whatt the hell??!??!?!

Look here, honey, no boy/guy/man is supposed to EVER be punching A GIRL in the stomach, especially not hard enough to create serious and prolonged pains!!!!

#1: You need to be a damn good friend and tell your friend that he is cheating on her.

#2: You need to report him to the police for hitting you, and if you feel uncomfortable with telling the police you need to tell EVERYBODY, your friends, your parents, your family, and your guidance couselors. Tell EVERYONE and do not be embarrased. If that bastard is really serious about beating the crap out of you then get a restrainign order and let everyone know that you had to. Not only will he be COMPLETELY embarrased for hitting you. He will also have the reputation of being a wifebeater or a dude who beats up girls. No such man should ever get an ounce of respect. Especially since they do not deserve it in the least.

#3: You SHOULD, however, be embarrassed that you called that guy a friend in the first place. He obviously has NO respect for you as a woman and as a human being, at all. Nor does he care for your feelings and how the pain that he causes (both physical and emotional) effect you. You absolutely NEED to get rid of that guy ASAP. For your own physical safety as well as for your emotional and mental well-being.

Honey, I pray that you work things out! It's all up to you. You see what you should and must do, it's up to you to do it!