Would you cheat if you were me?

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I live with my boyfriend and have a baby together, his a jealous freak he constantly tells me im cheating on him that im having sex with other guys, his 10yrs older than me, I've neever cheated on him but he treats me like if im cheating, he tells me that he will hurt me really bad if he knows for a fact that im cheating, when he comes from work he checks the closets under the bed to see if theres a guy, he calls me all kinds of names even tells the neighbors , co-workers, my family his family that he thinks im cheating, everyday he tells me not to dare to cheat on me, he says his jeallous like that because he doesn't want to lose me to the world that he loves me, and I love him too but not the same I feel hate too, his been acting like this for a yr, sometimes he talks to his ex by phone because they have a kid together, and tellls her how bad I treat him , and I get mad to the point that I get physical with him. oh and I found pics of his wedding with her and of course I threw them away. he treats me like a wh###re and have never cheated on him, and sometimes I feell like cheating,. is that a reason to cheat on someone?

You should never cheat, no matter what the situation. If you're seriously considering cheating, then what you should consider more, is ending the relationship.

He's behaving that way because he probably cheated on YOU before; and his unfounded-paranoia is a common side-effect. Considering the intensity of his paranoia, he's done it multiple times. He also sounds like he has anger issues, and the potential to become violent, by your description. That is NOT a good environment to raise a child.

If everything you've told us is true, then I think you should end the relationship, and find someone more level-headed, trusting, and trustworthy...

No, but it sounds like a pretty good reason to leave someone...
You dont only have yourself to consider, but also a baby. What type of environment is this child growing up in? He sounds insecure and abusive and your relationship seems to be spiraling into somewhere not good...
If you dont trust each other, what's the point of being together?

If you have partner for that you may cheat on him, but you must not tell him NEVER.

never cheat on anyone even if hes a butt! it hurts so bad to get decieved like that but him thinking about hitting you and hurting you! you need to get help with that.(if he does!). I know you have a kid and it would be hard on your own but I would leave this man. why would you want to live with someone whoo makes you feel like sh*t .your better than that..leave

1-800-799-SAFE (7233) Call that #. Life is tooo short to spend with someone like that. Get out.

No...dont cheat. Why feed into what hes saying? This isnt love. you should go back home and live w/your family if you can. Just end this relationship cause its not what you want anymore and you know that. He is accusing you cause hes the one cheating. Its so obvious. Get help and talk to friends and family so they can help u. He will hurt you and you mite end up w/a restraining order on him if he comes after you when you do finally leave. He sounds crazy and jealous and manipulative and controlling including violent. Is it really worth it?? Get out and concentrate on living a life w/your baby and put all your attention on urself and your baby. Get out. Dont be naive. If you do decide to leave, then have this conversation in a public place and have a friend and/or family member w/u or at least close by. your worth so much more than being treated this way. Why are you putting up with it?? get out while you still can.

you shouldnt cheat but I think you should break up with him because I know where you're coming from.. I was once like that myself but the only reason I changed is because the person I love. But you should never cheat. cheating doesn't solve anything it'll just make it worse. The best way is to break up with him.