Help with my breakup?

What do you do when you have been in a relationship 10 months, and you know its better for it to end but you dont want it to! It hurts so much and you dont want to let it go! you can't see him with anyone else and you are going to ,miss the time you had with him but in a way you think its 4 the better!! How do you let go? It hurts so bad what can I do to get through this and let him go and move on???

well you def. need to make shure it is a good reason to let this guy go, and make shure, you cannot work or talk things out to any more extent. I would suggest trying to get closure. or being friends with benefits as a last resorts. :] BECAUSE. if it is that serious... he may come bakk. :]

Awww, one of the main things you got to do is just smile!.
I've had this before, and it was really hard to cope with, but if you just smile ans think about the good things in life then things will start to pick up.
But if your going to break up with him you have to have a good reason, and you have to put it nicely..Try talking things over with him..But don't get in a fight about it.. If he starts to get touchy, just leave him for a while, cause he'sbound to be upset.
But even when you've broken up, stay close mates, it has its good sides.. You never know you two could start up again.
Give it a try =D
xxx

why do you want to break up w/her in the first place.

I've done this same thing before, too. You just have to be brave and do it already. If you really think it's for the best, then go for it. Don't let your feelings hold you back unless you really, truly love him. It may hurt both of you when and if you break up with him, but you'll know you're doing the right thing in the end. Hope this all works out!