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Am i depressed?

Asked by amylouisec10 3 months ago, 4 answers.

I feel sad all the time, spending time with my mates isnt me anymore and the guy who I love is fun but he keeps telling me I don't seem like myself.
what doese this sound like ?
my big sister I were very close until we were in a seriouse car crash. I...

was the lucky one out of the 3 of us as the other 2 people including my sister died.
I think I might be depressed but I cant go to my mum or dad because I get the blame for the crash.

Answered by youna_jrock on Aug 15, 2009, 08:41AM
35 answers

That is not fair,like you to get the blame for someome's death.it was her day to die.No one can stop death.
And you should try to stop thinking about it.She is dead,I know it was your sister,but life goes on and you have to love your life.
Try to think of funny things...I usually when I'm depress,I do not count on friends because I do not have those anymore so I listen to more happy music,watching comedies..etc...something that won't make me sad.

Answered by butterfly_kiss3z on Aug 15, 2009, 08:44AM
1307 answers

well, it's obvious that the car crash has a big impact on you, especially if it's a close loved one that you've lost. my condolenses goes out to you and your family. if it was a recent accident, I know it must be hard on the whole family, but your parents shouldn't put the blame on anyone, especially not you - no one is to blame with god's timing, if it was her time, it was her time... and rmb, she's not gone, she's only at rest, and if you believe, you and your family will meet her agian one day. as for now, talk with your friends and boyfriend about how you feel, tell them you need council and support - what you need is loads of love to keep you strong, it's what your sister would want!

Answered by fashion_funxoxo on Aug 15, 2009, 08:47AM
112 answers

I think youre depressed and if you cant talk to your parents try talking to your boyfriend and friends (if youre comfortable) about this my advice to you would be to try and talk to your parents once but if it doesnt workout then dont blaim yourself what happpened was an ACCIDENT plus you werent the one driving

Answered by purplestar03 on Aug 15, 2009, 09:46AM
17 answers

You are depressed, the car crash is not your fault. Don't think it's your fault, they just trying to make you feel bad. It was ment for her and I'm sorry about that. I get blamed a lot and get sad about it because it hurts. Tell yourself it is not your fault and she in a better place now. Talk to someone you can trust, letting someone in helps you be happy. I hope you feel better soon.