I'm getting tired of her

like I been with this girl for a year right and since yur a girl I thought yu wud know wht to do and im like cryn here because I need help im only 14 and like I been with this girl for like a year now wed had oral sex and stuff like that and yea it was...

good and all but like the point is that im gettin tired of her and then there is this new girl comin in my life her name is kennidy shes nice and all and cute but I don't know if im ready for her because im still in love so like I don't know who to pick or choose because idek if I want something new so can you plez help meh! =[[

Well, I'll answer this the best I can.
If you really want to start something new with this other girl, I'd say go for it. But, you know that the girl that you're with won't be happy about that so, I'd warn her ahead of time and maybe she'll understand.
All girls are different, at your age, but, you really have to think about what's good to look forward to in life. I know other people will answer this question since its on the public board. If it was me and I was tired of the person to whom I would be with, I'd go with the person that'll treat you right and such. Since I'm single, well, I've had some experiences with men in my life but, they weren't good ones. I was always heart broken and such. I wouldn't want this person you're with right now to be heart broken so, all you have to say, Well, I'm sorry to say, I think we should go our separate ways Then, you could also say, I don't think this is going to work out anymore Things like that.
As far as you and this girl having oral sex, I'm sure it felt good, but, I'd wait to have sex again until you're married to the right one which that'll be way down the road. So, if you're wanting to be with Kenedy, I'd be real careful asking her for oral sex. She might not want it. But, again, all girls are different in that area. Don't force that on her since she might not be comfortable with it.
As long as you two want to be together, I wouldn't rush things. But, just remember, the girl you're with right now might not like the fact of breaking up, but, again, you never know how she'll react. I hope I could be some help but, I know you might get other opinions from other people besides mine.
Marry Christmas! and have a happy New Year.

I'd say you sit down with your girl now and tell her that you dont think its working out, but before that make sure the other girl is what your sure you want. your girl friend now may not understand but sometimes you got to let go and move on with sumthing better...and I don't know if this helps or not im only 13 but thats what I think and good luck hope you make the right choice...

~lala