Major girl problem

Ok, so im dying to be with this girl and I feel her slipping away...or am I pushing her away. I dont know what ill do if she rejects me. Im 21 years old and never had a girl friend, so of course a companion and a relationship are all that I want...just for once would it be nice to not constantly think about a girl because im so anxious to be with her. this girl makes me feel so great, its just nice being around her. which becomes the problem, I cant stop thinking about her and it drives me crazy. we have kissed but it has been weeks since then and now im dreading she wants to be friends. its not that I dont want to her her friend, I just cant take another crush being crushed. I've learned telling a girl your real feelings only leads to rejection, but im not a player, hitting on girls is so unnatural. I just want to get drunk and try to kiss her again--being drunk is the only way ill get up the nerves, plus it will numb the pain when she probably rejects me--as they always do. please help !!!

I'm. Pretty. Sure. Your. Not. Pushing. Her. Away. And. U. Shouldent. Have. Trouble. With. Girls.if. Your. Sooo. Worried. About. Loosing. Her. Tell. Her how you feel. And if she dosent want u. Then. God. Dosent. Want u. To. Be. With. Her. Everything. Happens. For a reason. Sweetie. ~<3~. Christiania

DONT EVER GET DRUNK AND TRY AND GET A GIRL!!! Ok enough of the caps. Just try and be urself around her down think 2 much about it! Ask her if she wants to go out for a meal somewhere nice. Try and find out her fav food with out asking her! Dont go sumwhere stupidly posh as this will just make you both nervouse! IF you were british which I guess your nt id suggest I nice pub with good food! Not sure what the american equivilant is. Im guessing your american as most people on the internet seem to be!

DONT EVER GET DRUNK AND TRY AND GET A GIRL!!! Ok enough of the caps. Just try and be urself around her down think 2 much about it! Ask her if she wants to go out for a meal somewhere nice. Try and find out her fav food with out asking her! Dont go sumwhere stupidly posh as this will just make you both nervouse! IF you were british which I guess your nt id suggest I nice pub with good food! Not sure what the american equivilant is. Im guessing your american as most people on the internet seem to be!

This Girl is best friends with one of my friends too. I know the two I talked about us because the friend set us up for the first time. Should I take to my friend and see if I have a shot or should I just go for and accept what she says.

well from what your saying then I think uve got a great chance! if your friend set up after they were talking then you really shud go for it! Why wud she set up if she didnt like u!? Good luck

I feel like in the last weeks that I have pushed her away from romantic feelings because I think I may have tried to chill with her too much...u know what I mean. I think she may think that im too desperate...shh dont tell her I am. And when we were really drunk I asked her if our kiss meant anything and she kinda avoided any real answer...so now im terrified to make another move

interesting to note your saying on this fourm uve never had a girlfriend but on another you remark how it really turns you on when you c*m in your girlfriend mouth. I quote "its an acquired taste" apparently thats what girlfriend think about c*m. your either a sad man who has no girlfriend but wants to pretend he does or someone who likes to pretend he is a sad man. Either way your an arse faced wanker. PRICK

ROFL LMFAOA ^^^