How can i get him to admit he loves me?

I had a crush on this guy in high school and never thought me and him had a chance. then one day in 05 we hooked up and have been inseparable ever since. he broke up with me over a month ago but we are still friends with benefits. i know he loves me by...

the way he is with me, like he just wants to hold me and cuddle. he kisses me tenderly, he gets jealous about me being around another guy, he wants to be with me all the time but he says he doesn't love me and he doesn't think we will work out in a relationship. if thats true then why does he act like he loves me, how do i get him to admit he loves me or realize his feelings?

Your sure hes not using you for sex? He knows you really like him, he could be playing on that and telling you what you want to hear so you'll give him sex when he wants it. Start using your terms like dont have sex with him and see if he still calls and stuff then, if he doesnt forget him, if he does tell him you want more than a casual relationship. Dont be a door mat.

ask he flat out what the hell it is that he wants with you and if he can't give you a straight answer then threaten to finish with him and if he agrees then he was just using you for sex.

You need to wake up girl...this guy does NOT love you. Guys can have a sexual relationship and not get their emotions involved like girls do! If he truly loved you....he would be in a committed relationship with you...not be friends with benefits. Trust me when i say.....stop the sex, and i bet hes gone!! Hes just using you hun. He says all the things you want to hear so you' ll keep sleeping with him. Heres a tip for youIf his actions arent showing you what he says....he doesnt mean what hes saying! Does he say these things when your not together..like over the phone, or just when you both are being intimate?
ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS If he wants to be with you, then tell him to commit himself to you, (as in a bf/gf relationship) and not just for sex!! His jealousy is immature...he doesnt want you with any guy, but yet he doesnt want you either...ONLY SEXUALLY!!! Thats not someone who loves you...or even cares about you....its all about selfishness............ HIS!!! You are only gonna get hurt in the long run if you keep letting this happen.
You need to find a real man.

lol try messing with him go out with a guy friend and stuff and show him that u do not need someone hollding u back !

if he asks just tell him u are not gonna be waiting till he decides if he wants to be with u since other guys want to and why should u be in lay -away for him.