How can I get my parents to not find out I lied?

I'm 15 and dating a guy who's 18. I'm NOT in love with him but I do like him a lot. But because of his age my parents have forbidden me from dating him. I am allowed though to see him. Like I can go to movies in a large group with him. But not alone. Nor is he allowed to come over. And the boy doesn't go to my school anymore. So once a week or so I'd say I was going to my friends house who lives in my subdivision when really I would walk down to hang with him. But now my friend is moving one house down from me, today actually. And I am sure my parents will eventually talk to her parents and say something along the lines of, "So was my kid good when she was over?" I don't know, something stupid about me coming over. In which I expect a reply along the lines of, "Who's your kid? (since I never have been over). She's never been over." So pretty much I'm screwed. And when they find out they'll yell and possibly send me to live with my grandma in Florida. I'm so worried. I have stopped sneaking out though. That was all like 2 weeks ago and since then I've stopped because the worrying has driven me crazy. But now I'm back to worrying. Gah! What should I tell them? Should I deny it? We never had sex or anything so that is good. But I really do like having him as a boyfriend. And I want to keep him as that. What should I do?

Dear unwritten919,
So you've gotten yourself in a pickle as they say. This is why us adults preach about telling the truth and being honest with your parents.
Well now would be a good time to come clean with your parents. Choose the parent you are more comfortable talking with. They will want to know that what you are telling them now is the truth and that you really have learned a lesson. It may be difficult to have them trust you at this point. So make sure you are very truthful and very sincere with how you tell them. Be mature and don't get loud or argumentative...after all your the one at fault here. Show them that you can discuss things like an adult. If they tell you, you are grounded, you can't see your boyfriend at all and you have a 100 years of chores to do then you accept that...you do not argue, yell, cry, stomp your feet etc. Take your punishment. You were wrong. Show them that you've learned your lesson.
Sue...good luck

Your parents are right - you should not be going out with someone that is over 18. I have a friend who was 18 and his girlfriend was 16 and when her parents found out they had been sleeping together they sent him to jail. Now he is a Sex offender for like 20 years or something crazy like that. He has a hard time finding a good job with that on his record. The difference between 15 and 18 is big. He should be going to collage, planning his future and you should be studding for your driver license test. When you are 20 and he is 23 it will not be that big of a difference but now it is a big deal. Sorry this is not the advice you wanted I am sure but your parents are right to ask you not to see him.

coming from a 12 yr old is intersting just so you know ! I used to date a guy on a game and we got so sercoiuse that he told me to call hima and I did . sooner or later my parents found out . yes I was in trouble for dating a 16yr old when im 12 . but when I told my parents I felt better becuase I was hiding it in for 6 MONTHS then I came to a point were just me and my mother knew about this . So what im saying is you need to tell someone because either way they are going to find out so why not now. and if I were you just tell your mom or dad and try to work out something.

Thanks for the help. So far I haven't gotten in trouble. And I'm probley not going to tell my parents anything. But I've decided to break up with the boy. My freedom and trust that I get from my parents isn't worth it over being with him. So the next time I see him things will be ended. I feel its the right choice.

just tell your parents you really like him let your parents meet him you never no they may like him just tell your parents to give him a chance. that might work.