Help me please!

hi im goin out wid a boy we havnt been on our 1st date yet. bt im really nevous. I dont really want 2 be alone with him and I dont know why I do love him bt I feel really wierd if im alone with him. I fink im affaird of him trying 2 have sex with me bt I...

dont know help me please I dont know what 2 do!!!!!!!!!!!! HELP ME please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

That you even have to ask the question tells me that you know the answer in your heart, but you just don't want to listen to that little voice. If you are afraid, there may be a good reason that alarm bell is going off so listen to it. Try going to a movie instead or mini-golf or laser tag or anywhere without a bed or backseat in it!! Better yet, double date so it takes the pressure off. Get to know the guy, if you even want to. I'm not convinced that you do. Don't feel pressured to do things you don't want to do or aren't ready to do because you will regreat it the rest of your life and it's not something you can just take back and do over again. It should be special, because you are special and worth the time and effort and LOVE that goes into that sort of a relationship. Without even having a first date yet, you're too early in the ballgame to even be worried about this so don't put yourself in a situation where you have to be worried. Recruit buddies or your parents if you trust them and plan something with this date or dates in the future. Good luck!

That you even have to ask the question tells me that you know the answer in your heart, but you just don't want to listen to that little voice. If you are afraid, there may be a good reason that alarm bell is going off so listen to it. Try going to a movie instead or mini-golf or laser tag or anywhere without a bed or backseat in it!! Better yet, double date so it takes the pressure off. Get to know the guy, if you even want to. I'm not convinced that you do. Don't feel pressured to do things you don't want to do or aren't ready to do because you will regreat it the rest of your life and it's not something you can just take back and do over again. It should be special, because you are special and worth the time and effort and LOVE that goes into that sort of a relationship. Without even having a first date yet, you're too early in the ballgame to even be worried about this so don't put yourself in a situation where you have to be worried. Recruit buddies or your parents if you trust them and plan something with this date or dates in the future. Good luck!

listen you should take things steady by going on occasional dates. dont worry about sex for now. get to know him and have fun. take thing slllooowww and in time things will happen. work up to just a kiss then kissing then more if u really like him and he feels the same