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My best friend is dating an awful guy

Asked by emotionalwreck210 6 months ago, 3 answers.
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ok so my best friend is dating this really awful guy, that lies,is 13 and is a non-virgin,a player,has proly drinkd before, has cheated on her,is almost in his sencent year of 7th grade,stole my phone and ruend it, and dated a girl b/c of her butt one time. actualy it was proly more than 1 time! and she says she loves him.I love her (like a sister) so I dont want her to get hurt!what should I say or do?? write back a.s.a.p please!!!

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Answered by iluv2 on Mar 22, 2008, 04:56PM
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probably since I dont know how tight they are tell her some things he did (specifically the phone and cheating) if that dont work prove it to her...she should believe you if she is your best friend.

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Answered by tinatodder4 on Mar 22, 2008, 04:59PM
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like I've said before... they say love is blind for a reason; everyone can see he's a jackass, but she can't. honestly, the most you can do is just tell her your opinion about him and leave it at that. you can't interfere too much in their relationship, or she'll just end up getting angry at you. she has to figure this one on her own.. I know you don't want to see her hurt, but theres not much you can do if she's not willing to listen.. sadly, she's another girl who has learn the hard way :[

Answered by modernwinterbreeze on Mar 22, 2008, 06:19PM
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Your friend seems to be dating probably the guys we sometimes fear, though unfortuantly fall for - The bad guys, meaning they cause conflict/trouble and are cruel and conceited. From what I'm reading, it doesn't seem like your friend knows how her boyfriend is really like.

I got to tell you - I have a very close friend of mine who got involved with one of the most ruthless, selfish guys I've ever seen. Because of him, my friend almost lost her friends because of him. He caused so much conflict with people, especially me. I couldn't stand him.

So, my advice for you is to talk to her. Though you can't control who your friend goes out with, it's probably good for her to know how you really feel about him. Never be afraid to voice your opinion. It's better to be honest and open, instead of pretending to enjoy his company.

Maybe she'll really start to see his true colors.