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Should i call or pursue him if he's taken?

it's elmo Asked by boycrazee_rr13 over 2 years ago, 6 answers.

okay so I REALLY like this guy, I told him I liked him and he was fine with it. we started text messaging and calling each other, he even asked me to send him a picture of me to his cellphone. but before that he had told me he liked this girl, I was fine...

with it I guess, its not like they were going out or anything. so we continued talking and I just thought he stopped liking her and it wasn't an issue. but then they started going out. the thing is his girlfriend treats him like crap. its summer now, and we haven't talked since. I really want to talk to him again, but I don't know if its okay to call him, as far as I know him and his girlfriend never officially broke up. if anyone has any advice I would appreciate it soo much.

Me Answered by evilpinkpunkfairy on Jun 18, 2007, 02:20PM
727 answers

It is probably better to loose contact with him completely and just try to get over him. If he choose this girl who treats him like crap over you then he is obviously not worth it and doesn't deserve you! Go find a new guy and just have fun! Good luck hunni! x

black and white Answered by kattie8451 on Jun 18, 2007, 02:53PM
612 answers

if u really like him but want to get over him then id follow what evilpink said but if u dont then just call him its no big deal. if he doesnt mind talking to u then he might be thinking the same thing but is too afraid to call u

Answered by angelfire2708 on Jun 18, 2007, 05:35PM
7802 answers

You want to talk to him because..? It was fine talking/texting him BEFORE he had a gf, but now i think that you should just let him be. Would you want girls calling YOUR bf?
You told him that you liked him, and he basically did nothing. Hes already chosen who he wants to be with.

Her treating him like crap is irrevelant, because thats just YOUR opinion of her. He is obviously ok with it, or he wouldnt be with her.

You can try and pursue him again, when/if he becomes available again, but until then..enjoy your summer. Maybe a new guy will come into your life!

claire87 Answered by claire87 on Jun 19, 2007, 04:38AM
98 answers

i'd listen to what angelfire2708 and the others have to say just let him go it might take you a while to get over it but you will and you'll find someone else who will wipe you off your feet.

Answered by crazyjersey on Jun 19, 2007, 10:40AM
4 answers

don't ever call..make him come to you. You don't want to look desperate and it is so better to have the guy chase you than you chase the guy.. besides guys don't like girls who are always calling and nagging.. Let him call you, play hard to get, and if he is interested he will call you.

me me me!!! Answered by tinker_toyz_1 on Jun 21, 2007, 08:01AM
6 answers

the best you can do is try. If he and the girlfriend are still together, just explain to him how you feel adn felt about this.. make him understand exactly what u mean.. dont beat around the bush and dont leave things hanging.. understand he may say that it wont work out with you, even as friends.. but the least u can do is try..

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