How to lead into sex?

my boyfriend really wants to have sex with me...im too nervous...we have done some stuff - but never had sex. he always touches me and stuff, but I mean like, I am a virgin...I know about sex and soforth but I dont know HOW to lead into it...please, someone answer my question...oh, and yeh, im 13 years old. [: what should I do???

Ell: Never let a guy pressure you into doing something that you aren't 100% sure about doing. Tell him no and if he is anything worth keeping he will understand completely. Sex will not prove to him your love or devotion, only your easiness and lack of self respect. If he tries to convince you that you should have sex with him he is no good. He might look and act good but if mean guys always came in mean looks and acts then no girl would ever get duped. And almost every girl has gotten tricked into believing that a guy is all good. So be careful, and only do it when you are completely sure and ready. If you ever want to talk or ask questions just funmail me.

DONT DO IT!!! you are 2 YOUNG!!! DO your PARENTZ KNOW?

e mail me!!!

dont do it you will be called a slut and every thing tsk it from a girl who knows

u can get aids

You are way to young to be doing that. Your 13, my best friend lost it at 13 and she regrets all of it. You need to wait, wait untill your ready. Plus I lost it at 15 and I regret it cause the guy...well thats all he wanted. You need to wait. trust me

no you should wait till your ready for the baggage it comes with trust me its not worth it if he loved you hed wait for you and if dosnt he wasnt the right one anyway.

no you should wait till your ready for the baggage it comes with trust me its not worth it if he loved you hed wait for you and if dosnt he wasnt the right one anyway.

no you should wait till your ready for the baggage it comes with trust me its not worth it if he loved you hed wait for you and if dosnt he wasnt the right one anyway.

really wants to have sex with you eh??...be careful...cause to me it may seem like he's kinda fourcing you!! cause 13 is quite a young age... I just dont want you doing anything you'll regreat later!! I'm like 17, and I've almost been with my boyfriend for 2 years, we've came close to having sex before...but I wasn't ready...so he didn't force me!! the same thing should go with you... if you aren't ready...don't let him lead you into having sex!! - wait until you're ready and that you know he wants it out of love...because if you guys decide to break up one day... it's easier for a guy to move on...but not for a girl!!

but if you do decide to do it with him, make sure you do it safe!! cause at your age... you aren't capable of having a baby and taking care of it!! use at least 2 conterceptions (condom, birth control, spermacide...) - to be on the safe side!! hope you make the right choice for yourself =)

You need to realize that a boy who pressures you into having sex, does NOT care about you! You are by no means emotionally, psychologically, and socially mature enough to handle the implications of having sex.

Don't be embarrassed or think you will sound immature by saying no to sex. Choosing not to have sex is VERY mature. It would be immature to be pressured into something you don’t want!

Tell him how you feel about him, and be honest. If you don't feel close enough to him yet, say so. If you really love him but aren't interested in sex right now, say so.

As with almost every other major decision in life, you need to do what is right for you and not anyone else. If you think sex is a good idea because your boyfriend wants to begin a sexual relationship, think again.
Anyone who tries to pressure you into having sex by saying, "if you truly cared, you wouldn't say no," or "if you loved me, you'd show it by having sex" isn't really looking out for you and what matters most to you. They're looking to satisfy their own feelings and urges about sex.

If someone says that not having sex after doing other kinds of fooling around will cause him physical pain, that's also a sign that that person is thinking only of himself. If you feel that you should have sex because you're afraid of losing him, it may be a good time to end the relationship.

dont do it if you dont want to and your boyfriend sounds like a perv