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me Asked by jennifer_and_malachi_mommy 9 months ago, 1 answer.

I dont know what to do anymore my man and me keep fighting and he keeps throwing that hes going to go live with his family up in my face and bs t I said maybe you can find a nother girl he said yea and lot nicer and dont bi*** about every little thing he...

dont care how I feel or what I say anymore he jumps for everybody and listen to them if I say different I mean he says all kinds of bs but I just dont know what to do anymore he said hes going to live this friday anyways I mean we will more likely be fine later like always but I just cant take this bs anymore I just wont to kill my self and ps I am bi polar and suicdel help me please

flower Answered by zorbot on Mar 11, 2009, 12:04PM
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If you are having problems with your boyfriend then you need to seriously talk things through (not fight) that is I why I suggest going to see a counselor or therapist together. It sounds like you two are just winding each other up without getting to the real issues behind your fights. You both need to shut up and look at what's really bothering you.

I suggest not reacting to his provocations anymore. Try to stay calm and not react aggressively (no screaming, no accusing just telling him how you feel). Ask him to calm down, take a walk and talk things out later when you are both calmer. If both of you aren't willing to sacrifice by really trying to listen and talk things through then you'll both have to accept that this relationship isn't working out.

This isn't necessarily a bad thing because when two people are miserable together they don't fell good about themselves and can't see the other possibilities that are offered to them. It also affects your morale and makes you feel tired and empty. Just because this relationship might not work out it doesn't mean that another one won't.

It's important to feel secure that the end of this relationship doesn't mean the end of your life. It's just one of the many things you'll live in your life, try to see it as a learning experience.

It's important that you get help with your bipolar and suicidal tendencies, go see a therapist. It will be good to talk to someone and help figure things out together. Here are some hotlines if you need feel your on the edge:
http://www.pamf.org/teen/hotlines.html

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