How can you mend a broken a heart?

My ex-boyfriend just recently broke up with me. I just can't believe he's gone, everything just hurts so much, everything reminds me of him. He admitted to me, he doesn't care about me anymore. I cry myself to sleep every night, I dream of him and every...

morning I wake up to the same painful reality. We were so in love, we made plans together, he promised me he'd always love me no matter what. Maybe this is all my fault, as he says it is but I never knew it could be that easy to put aside his feelings and forget about the love we shared. My heart hurts so much, I know I can get through this. I know things always get better in time but I'm still so in love with him. A part of me knows I need to move on and the other part of me doesn't want to forget him. No one really understands how I feel, everyone is telling me it's my fault! But I gave him my all, I loved him with all my heart. The days just get longer and lonelier and my nights get more and more sleepless. I'm trying to keep myself busy, trying to carry on like nothing's wrong. So why does everything still hurt so much? Why do I still love him? Why do I cry and cry when I know no matter how many tears I cry, nothing is going to change?
Someone please help, how can you mend a broken a heart?

Awww, well, since he left you know he was NOT the one.There is someone out there for you so all you gotta do is let him comee to you dont go trying to seek that person because it will only get you hurt. As far as him, forget him. He's WHack for leaving such a wonderful person. He's missing out on great things. So let him go. Try to join clubs or hang out with your friends more to get your mind off him. You need the best and closest friends around right now, that will help you get through this horrible time.Just throw away stuff yall shared and act as if you never even went with him. If that dont work then you need to just start trying new things. Do the oppsite of what you would do while you was with him. Change is good.