Help me make it last

ok so I have an amazing boyfriend and I love him with all my heart. we have been going out for a while, and he just told me he is going to a different school than me next year, which isnt what we had planned. I was supportive and told him we would still stay together, but now im scared we wont be able to. Like I said I love him so much, but being in two seperate places might be hard. We have talked about it a lot, and he always tells me it will be ok, but I alwyas get upset because I think differently. He wants to stay together, but I thik its immpossible. how can we make this work?

Ok, dont listen to bigandripped... hes 23 and out of school. Different school relationships work! Dont worry about it! I've been in plenty. If its meant to work out it will. You really cant stress about it because what control do you have? Thats in some 3 months, so if you start worrying now, you wont be able to enjoy your summer! Seriously, if you guys REALLY like/love eachother, you will make it work. Dont bug him about it 24/7 either. You can tell him that youll miss seeing him. Just seem relaxed. And when school rolls around, call him everyday, get together when you can for after school activities, like if they are having a battle of the bands, or go over and help him study, or just do your homework together. There are plenty of ways to stay together. Goodluck!

Its going to take work, but if your BOTH committed to the relationship, IT CAN WORK!!!

I'm in one right now..and believe me, if you make good friends with their parents, and they really don't mind you coming over or calling, it will last..I just went over today, and omg, Jessica is amazing..she's gotten to looking better and everything after these..2 or 3 so odd months..bigandripped, your advice on my question wasn't the greatest, because no girl likes being treated like crap..but seriously, it will work, I broke up with her because I didn't think it would, but we got back together, and this 3rd time has been the best of them all..omg, I love her so much I couldn't ever stand to have her say the distance is too much..she's coming back to Pine Forest next year though..because she's been getting in so many fights..I seriously need to go to her school, because this one chick's boyfriend almost jumped in..but yeah, if you really love her, like youmakemeesmile1 says, it should last..just say you're going to a party or something and meet up with her..I told my mom jess was having a party..stych had a band party, so it wasn't what I expected but same kinda thing..just keep talking to him and tell him how much you love him, it will all work out, and if it doesn't, it'll be his fault, because he must really not want to hang on to you..but, hopefully he does, so..

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So basically you then decide to be the bad guy? Ok, so Im a nice girl, and I only get stepped on sometimes when I dont give a boy what I want but then the nice guy comes along and I know those bad boys arent worth my time. Not all girls at bad/mean! You are going to have to realize that. And there is no way your going to be respected in life with an attitude like that.

Hahaha, you sound like a girl feeling hard to get. So basically your saying, that you dont hold doors for girls all the time because you want them to feel special when you do? Yeah, thats not the truth, girls DO feel specail when you hold the door for the whether its 1st time or the 100th time. Yeah, I admit there are some mean girls out there, but then again, there are the mean boys out there. And were going to have our seperate opinions because we are two 100% oposite people in two 100% situations, and were just going to have to accept that.

You would have to be able to sacrifice not being able to see him everyday. Do you think your love is deep enough to make that kind of provision. If not you may look elsewhere.

yeah, like I said earlier when I wasn't logged in, if you really love him, call him, arrange to see him like every saturday, go to local band concerts, his house, etc. whenever you can..

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