Help me, i don't know what to do!

OK, so I met this guy through my best friend two Summers ago. We ended up dating for about a month at the beginning of the school year, but we stopped talking for some reason after he told me I had to take some initiative. At the end of the same school...

year we started talking again and hung out during that Summer and into the next school year, but nothing happened this time and I eventually felt like he didn#039;t like me so I once again stopped talking to him. At the end of the most recent school year, I randomly decided to call him up and I left a message. He called me back from where he was on spring break, and unfortunately, I couldnt talk at the time, so we said a few words and that was it. After break, he called me one night and we talked for hours. The next day he called me and asked me to dinner with him. We started dating again... this time it lasted a month or so, but I got in a fight with my ex-boyfriend outside his window (didn#039;t think about it at the time) and naturally, he was angry. Well we resolved things (only after I was a complete bitch to him at the bar) and he said that we should just start over. He had a baseball trip across the country the next two weeks, so we didn#039;t talk. I called him a few times after he got home and didn#039;t leave a message, but he never called back. I am always paranoid of being the quot;annoying girlquot;, so once again, I have given up on the situation, figuring he must not like me. But I really, really like this guy. He makes me happy and when I#039;m around him, I feel like we have the best connection. Should I just forget about him, should I call him, or should I wait until I run into him to see what#039;s up? If I do call him, what do I ask!?

I understand you don#039;t want to be the #039;annoying#039;girl, but how about the #039;assertive#039; girl?

You said: quot;I called him a few times after he got home and didn#039;t leave a message, but he never called back.quot;
**If you didn#039;t leave a message, how did he know you called? How did he know you wanted him to call you back?

You asked: quot;Should I just forget about him, should I call him, or should I wait until I run into him to see what#039;s up? If I do call him, what do I ask!? quot;
**And you answered it yourself when you said: quot;But I really, really like this guy. He makes me happy and when I#039;m around him, I feel like we have the best connection.quot;
So you shouldn#039;t just forget about him and your casual way of just waiting for things to happen hasn#039;t been working so why not . . .

*Call and leave a message saying it#039;s important that he calls you back.
*If he calls you back tell him you#039;d like to go somewhere and talk to him about something. That something would be...how does he feel about you? That he means a lot to you. [why not be direct? Then you will know where you stand and not have to guess.] Would he like to go out again?

If he doesn#039;t call you back then that will be your answer. And you can start working on getting over him.

Good luck and blessings

it sounds like you he may be getting the wrong signal from you. guys usually call the girl they think they like once maybe twice if they cannot get in touch with them its sends the signal that you don#039;t like them or are not interested. you should try to make contact with him and ask him if he wants to get together and do something. and see if it clicks, if it doesn#039;t then forget about it and move on to the next thing.