Does he like me at all?

I like this boy but he's mean to me. Should I like him still or no? Does it mean that he likes me? I mean sometimes he talks to me and is nice but sometimes I think he thinks I don't even exist does he like me???

Dear basketballbabe22,
Boys sometimes are mean to girls when they are toddlers. If he is older than 3 and is being mean than he isn't for you. You see no one should be mean to someone else. As we get older and more mature like you we can see things like people being mean, or people being a snob or people who use other people. These are called 'red flags' and when we see this behavour we stay away from it. We also learn from it...we learn not to be like that because that is bad behavour. So find yourself friends who treat each other nicely and stay away from anybody who is mean.
Sue...good luck