Trying to be the girl he fell in love with

Most of my questions revolve around my fiance. I love him so much and I do not want to lose him again. I don't know how to live without him. He broke up with me once before because he was scared and a year later he wants to be with me again. I went through so much pain because of him and now I am slowly trying to be the girl that he fell in love with...but it will take me a while. Since we love each other so much we are noramlly arguing over the dumbest things. Well he BEGGED me to come back to him and give him another chance but now I feel that he's turning it around and to avoid an arguement he just won't tell me what's going on in his head. I'm afriad that I'm going to lose him and one of the worst things is that over the past week our relationship just doesn't seem right and I hate it. Everything is switched between us. He's less caring, he's mean, and he can't c*m with me...and that was me with him and he was nice and did everything for me because he thought that I was going to leave him. Now I'm trying to be nice, I c*m, and I'll do just about anything that he wants me to because I don't want to lose him. What should I do...and please don't say leave him because I won't do that. Please help me keep him...I need your help ASAP

Girl...first thing is first...do you love him? and are you sure that he loves you like for real? because you cant be with someone that does this to u. And im not telling you to leave him BUT just think of everything 'mean' that he does to u. I mean you can find someone that will treat you better with respect and all! Now if you don't want to leave him like you say well sit down with him and have a serious talk with him. Ask him why he is mean...ask him why he has changed...just tell him to answer your questions honestly! Well good luck! and take care!

Love is not enough to make a relationship work -it needs compatibility and it needs commitment. It also takes two people. Once a couple breaks up, the relationship is NEVER the same! No matter how you still felt about him, you shouldnt have been so quick to take him back! He obvioulsy doesnt respect you anymore. To put it mildly, it doesnt sound like you have much of a relationship anymore! You cant change how things used to be, this is now, and this is how things are going to be. Looks like you have both grown in different directions. Face it, this isnt the same guy you once knew, and you arent going to change him to the way he used to be. This is who he is now, and if you cant accept that, then you are going to be miserably happy until you realze that this just isnt the guy for you anymore, no matter how much you keep trying to convince yourself that he is.

tell him he needs to be a little more like he was before?

 
You might be hung up in a relationship because you like being in love and wanted.

It sounds to me like you and he should be going your separate ways.

'Mr. Right' is still out there but you have to be available to his sight.

Don't develop a relationship with any man who tries to mold you. If he is worth while, he will accept you as you are and will help set goals that will allow both of you to grow into a positive and prosperous future.

Don't be afraid to be free for awhile until you meet the right person.