Why do guys only talk to me when they want sex?

why is it guys only talk to me because they want sex not cause they truely like me?

Don't listen to stillheretotellthetruth1 because that is probably not true. All guys are like that sadly they look at the physical part of liking somone before the mental part. You can't really expect much from guys these days anyways because usually all they do want is sex so it's not you it's them. Just wait it out and wait for a guy to truly like you and not just expect sex becuase there are some out there anyways good luck I'm sure you'll find someone

maby because they just find you attractive

Well naturally a guy would talk to a woman whom he thinks he'd like to 'shag' with before anything else. So the natural occurance of them just straight up saying it has a high probability in this day and age. Yes it turns some woman into thinking 'men are pigs' but like I said a lot of people are ruled by their instincts. Not everyone like's to play the game before going straight to sex.

speaking from my point of veiw not all guys want that b/c I dont just want you for sex I like you enough to respect what your wishes are

obviously you're talking to the wrong guys dear..

because your pretty and guys are jerks!

not all guys are like that, maybe just the guys you hang around with. I guess a lot of guys are sex-obsessed, and some people may say the majority of guys, but I would disagree with that. see if you regularly hang around with stupid follower type guys (I.e. white guys who dress like black guys, guys with their collars popped, guys who listen to nickelback, etc, etc) then sure they're all idiots and would probably just think to themselves Why would I talk to a girl unless I was going to get into her pants? But there ARE intelligent people in this world who think about things other than sex.

Don't get me wrong. Sex is awesome. But my girlfriend takes care of that for me, plus I also have this thing called morality which prevents me from thinking of girls as sex objects and nothing else. I'm sure there are a lot of guys out there who are the same, you're just finding the jerks because well... maybe you hang out with stupid people.

not all guys are like that, maybe just the guys you hang around with. I guess a lot of guys are sex-obsessed, and some people may say the majority of guys, but I would disagree with that. see if you regularly hang around with stupid follower type guys (I.e. white guys who dress like black guys, guys with their collars popped, guys who listen to nickelback, etc, etc) then sure they're all idiots and would probably just think to themselves Why would I talk to a girl unless I was going to get into her pants? But there ARE intelligent people in this world who think about things other than sex.

Don't get me wrong. Sex is awesome. But my girlfriend takes care of that for me, plus I also have this thing called morality which prevents me from thinking of girls as sex objects and nothing else. I'm sure there are a lot of guys out there who are the same, you're just finding the jerks because well... maybe you hang out with stupid people.