Help make love making more enjoyable?

Hey, My boyfriend has a tiny pen*s, & we have had s*x many times, he never cums inside me, we both decided on this. but I have never had an orgasuim from him f*cking me, fingering me, & I might just try letting him eat me out :S but I dont think that will make much of a difference, he orgasuims every time, but he also doesnt last very long at all. I really love this boy, we have been together for half a year & im hoping its for much much longer, I wouldnt break up with him because of this problem...but is this hopeless? I cant tell him how to pleasure me because I just dont touch myself, & I dont want to feel like im giving him orders, I dont know what to say anyway. Some of my friends have had orgasums but I havnt, haha I feel a little left out theres this place he stimulates (not inside me) & I think he thinks ill have an orgasum if he doesnt stop when it gets intence, but I always stop him becuase its so intence, cause if I dont I beleive it begins to hurt me.

If you dont know what pleasures you, how is he suppose to know? You would just be helping him, not giving orders. For most women, cant org**m through just intercourse.
The clitoris, has as many as a man's pen*s. In order to org**m, you need to touch what works. During intercourse, the clitoris rarely gets touched. Some women learn to org**m through intercourse with practice. Since your clitoris -- the most sensitive body part on a woman -- is not located inside your vagina, reaching an org**m through intercourse is difficult. While you are making love with your partner inside you, touch, press, and rub your clitoris with your fingers. You may have to move your body so that you can do this, and that can be part of the fun. It really is okay, too, if you have your orgasms before or after intercourse. Don't drive yourself crazy... it's a matter of anatomy and variety.