Help, is this normal?

Hey, im 14 year old girl and my name is claira. I've noticed I have un even boobs, one is like twice the size of the other one and its really annoying because its noticable. what could be wrong with them? and will they fix them self's up or not?
Im really worried about it, and I dont want them to be different sizes.

I think it is rather normal to not be symmetrical so nothing to be alarmed about unless you develop more symptoms

hi there,

yes, I agree, uneven breast development is quite common. dont get all worried about it now. if the issue persists & it bothes you... wait till you are done developing/in your 20's and then consut your Dr.

hey,

thankyou so much for all that advice. it just really bugs me that's all, im a little more calm now thanks to you aspasia. carolinehampton you also helped to.

Thanks heaps.

you are very welcome..also I think they even themselves up a bit more once you are breastfeeding your first child..then they shrivel up a bit..

im only fourteen, I dont think ill be having any kids for while. I just reallt hope they do fix themselfs up because it is sort of noticable.

thanks heaps.

yes I hope you don't have children for awhile too..I bet your problem is more noticeable to you than to most people because I remember at 14 I was more self conscious of my body and its changes than I think others were..

yeah I suppose its more noticable to me then anyone else. im very self conscious of my body, I suppose im just going to have to learn to love it.

thanks heaps.

that would be the best solution cause you have to live in your body for the next 70 years and it gets harder to love when the wrinkles become more noticeable and the boobs sag to your belly button..so yes..enjoy the body you have..not that I can talk..I would trade mine in for Janet Jackson's any day..though she is planning on having heaps of children so we shall see what that does to her hourglass figure..

yeah I suppose so, everyone's boobs are going to sag sooner or later and I realise that. Id trader my body in for anyone's..Natalie Bassingthwaighte or even Kylie Minogue's.
Ill just learn to love my body, ill get there one day.

thanks.

good answer..you are very mature for your age

Oh thanks.
I know that im never going to be able to swich body's with anyone so there is no point in dreaming of the perfect body. Ill learn to love mine, and everything will be ok. Ill learn that my boobs will one day change (hopefully).
Do you have msn?
Also where are you from?

there are so many women out there who spend fortunes on trying to get the perfect body and fretting when they don't so I am pleased youhaven't fallen into that trap..I am from Queensland Australia and unfortunately I cannot do the chat thing because I have a defective keypad plus I am a lousy typist..people go to sleep waiting for a single sentence response from me..but I think you are most sensible and that is missing from most parts of the world..where are you from?

Yeah, I look in magazines and you see all those beautiful people and I just wish I looked that but I know im never going to be like that, im just going to be me.
Im from Geelong, it's in victoria.

Do you have a email addy? maybe we can send emails instead of typing through fun advice.

no wonder you are more sensible than a lot of women...you are Australian....it would be lovely to be able to chat with you...I wouldn't know about the boy but you seem to have a good mind

I dont understand what you mean, when you say 'I wouldnt know anout the boy'? yes im australian, but that doesnt change anything..anyone could look at celeb's or anyone for that matter and want there body. Yeah would be great to chat with you aswel. Ill send you an email now, and we can chat through there?

it was a typo for body..I meant I wouldn't know about your body ...not boy..my key pad is playing up so I have to use all my strength on my letter d for it to register and sometimes I forget that it didn't show up..I should proofread better... but like I say..your mind is good..also I am in communication with a lot of people from America and many of them have different ideas about their bodies...it is almost like they could get the perfect one in time..I am going to need a completely brand new one for that to happen

thought so. I dont proofread either, so if there's any mistakes that you dont understand just ask alright. I would'nt know how my body work's either, but if the people in America think that they will end up with the right body in time, I hope I do aswel..but as I said there's no point in dreaming and ill just learn to love mine.

yes I totally agree..just be happy with what you've got because there are people in the world with a lot less and yet they still manage to be content..

yeah, I wish I was content

I think the only real content people in this world are babies after a full feed and a change of nappy and we can't really go back to that so we have to remain the way we are whether we like it much or not..but like you say learning to love the way your body is and the way you are is a start towards being content..then there's being content with life in general which is another issue

Yeah I know, the more I get to love the more content ill be.
Your a really down to earth person you know that? if you dont mind me asking, how old are you?

that is what I notce about you too..you are down to earth..if you were dyslexic then we would be the exact same age..that is a hint as I don't really want the whole entire world to know how ancient I am..

Oh thankyou, this is going to sound really dumb but what does dyslexic mean? im not that smart lol.

look im your age 2 my boobs are axzatly like that. after a few months my boobs staightin uped
so dont worry

dyslexic people often read letters or numbers the wrong way around or in the wrong order..so 14 may be read back to front by a dyslexic

Oh I get it now, thanks heaps for telling me that.

you are very welcome and I wish more girls were not afraid to say what was on their mind and what hey are wanting to know..cause that is the best way to learn

Im actually a really shy person..I find it easier to say what I need to say on paper and not face to face. I've got really low self - esteem and I need too boost it up.
Can you send me an email, I need to talk to you about something and I dont want anyone else to know.

ok shall do

hey I just wanted to let you know that im 18 and one boob is a size bigger. so I know how you feel its uncomfortable but it should work out. Its a lot worse if you have low self esteem but its part of who you are and you should be proud to be that person.

you need to check out the gynocologist. But before you do, measure each by: keep a centimetre rule on your breast vertically and see the height. If they are different, go to the doctor immediately

im not sure if im late but:

my friend at my school also has the same problem, first of all, its normal. really normal. and itll fix itself. have you gone and seen your doctor? if you havn't you really should, most of the time its your hormones or something. well you really should talk to your mom or dad whatever your comfortable with about it and maybe go and see your doctor.
hoped I helped.