I don't know whether have sex or not

I want to have sex with my girlfriend but the thing is its that I'm afraid that I might get her pregnant . I'm afraid that the condom might break.
I want to know is it ok how I am with it? What to do to stop having fear about pregnancy ? What should I do? is it safe to use a -planned parenthood- condom?
help please !!!

Chill Chill man.

I can already tell you by how much your worried that you dont even need to do it at all period.

But if you do, your going to have to take that 'RISK' like a man. If you really want to have sex with her, you will do it and get it over with. And you are not going to worry if she gets pregnant at all because your going to wear a condom and she is going to take a birth-control pill or whatever.

But if she gets pregnant oh will man its your baby, are you going to take care of it? or run away like a coward. If your this worried about it, then dude I dont think your ready at all to take this risk. Because if your not at the right age and niether is she, doing this and having the baby will not feel right at all. Your going to wind up in a big mess.

lol, dont just do it and get over it.
its very normal for you to be worried about her getting pregnant.
so make sure you take all the precautions.
first make sure you and her are both 100% ready
use a condom, and see if shes on the pill, or another form of birth control
as it helps more to say be on the pill and use a condom as well
theres always going to be a risk of pregnancy with sex,
but the more careful and prepared you are the safer it is

Dear not_your_puppet,
Yes, be afraid be very afraid. One should never engage in sex unless they are ready to face the consequences of the condom breaking, the birth control not working etc. I use this simple rule...are you prepared to be a parent, are you financially prepared, are you mature enough to make the proper choices? If you cannot say yes to all the above you really are not ready for sex. Having sex comes with responsibilities that most do not realize until to late...congratulations for thinking about it before and not after when it's too late.
Sue...good luck

If you are afriad of getting her pregnent, I would suggest that she be on birth control before you guys have sex... and you wear a condom... there are also plenty of spermacides that you can use... if you do all of that, there is a very very small chance that she will get pregnent...