Help!! i need your advice..

new years eve my b.f got drunk and I took care of him all night, he fell asleep and I went through his cell (I know bad thing to do) I found that he was talking to his x g/f and I called her and asked a few questions and found out that he talks to her...

but isnt w/ her according to her they were talking as in gettting back together.he has told me baout her and there relationship he ot really close to her family and he tells me that he likes hanging out with her brothers more then her that thats the honest to god answer. I confornted him about this and he tells me sorry for keeping it from me but that he ddnt ever go see her that he dosnt have time to be messing w/ anyone b/c he has too much going on and that he loves our relationship. what do I do?? take a break from him or just talk through it and see what happens?

Me and him have been together for over a year now and we have such an honsest relationship htat it hurts me soo much and I know hes killing himself over it too.I dont know what to do, I dont want to be without him hes everything to me what do I do ???

well ill try my best to give you some advice. but you should stay with him. I mean he has been with you for a year so that obviously means he wants to b with you and not her bc he is with u. but I also would talk to him about talking to her. if he has nothin to hide he should tell you wats going on. but I would kinda just tell him to not talk to her nemore just for the fact that thats his ex. well hope I helped a lil!! lol... good luck with him

dont leave hime or take a break, if he is an honest guy he could feel that you dont trust him any more, and that could crush im

Okay, my boyfriend and I had kind of this thing too. Don't leave him or take a break.. If he wanted to be with her he would be.. If he said he's not hanging out with her try to trust him.. I know it's hard. If he's been with you for over a year then he's not going to leave you. Or shouldn't. Talk to him about it too

Theres nothing going on, I am a guy, I know how we think