I love my little girl but my wife is a cheater and lies

Hi, my name is Will and 2 years ago my wife had an affair with a guy at her work. He e-mailed me that she had cheated on me with him and gave details that really hurt. Then she moved away to Cleveland with my daughter. Then last October she asked me to take her back and I did. I missed my little girl. Now she's gone back to not coming home at night and not calling and I feel hurt and a fool. What should I do?

I'm so sorry your wife is treating you this way. It's really a shame, especially since there is a child involved. Whatever you do, do not blame yourself. Every child deserves a safe and loving environment, and you didn't compromise it, your wife did.

In my opinion, you should break things off with your wife, and go to court to get custody or joint custody of the child.

I don't say this to be vain but I'm a nice looking guy so problem isn't like I can't get another girlfriend but I TRUSTED my wife when she promised to never do it again because being with my daughter means so much to me. It's just got me really depressed. Thanks for your help.

Any other thoughts?

Love your daughter, and do not care to much of your dissolute wife. Every minutes what you spend together with you daughter is a present for you from the life. Enjoy the evenings when you are only two in the house and you can care about her (tales, bathing, singing etc.).
Do not feel hurt at all, you can be a perfect father, this is a pretty good occasion for that, this is the aim/destination of your life. When your wife is at home try to get your satisfaction with her, then let her to run after other men. This is a typical female behavior, not for all of the females but for many. Later, when your daughter will be older enough you may think of that how to rearrange your life. THEN you can be determined and strict. Till that time regard only your daughter, nothing else. Do not let your wife to use you financially, because that money is your daughter's money,
I mean the money for your daughter's future.

I FEEL YOU SHOULD STIIL TAKE CARE OF YOUR DAUGHTER
AND PROBABLY END IT WITH YOUR WIFE BECAUSE YOU DESERVE TO BE
WITH SOME ONE THAT WILL BE CLOSE TO YOU AND YOUR DAUGHTER. AND YOU
SHOULD FIND OUT THE TRUTH IF YOUR WIFES CHEATING ON YOU AGAIN.