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I lost a friend two years ago to a drug overdose, I know how you fell there. It f*cked up my head more than anything I have ever experienced. And I had a lot of rage as well, I freaked out a couple times but cutting myself would have never helped. Everyone has stress and problems, but you have to find a new way to express it without harming yourself. And im not sure where you were heading with your half brothers dad, but if you feel he acted inapropriately you really need to tell your parents. It doesn't matter if you get along with them, I guarantee they will be happy you told em, well, not happy but not mad at you.
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How to stop cutting myself?
Hey, my name is Tela, I'm a 14 yr old freashman, and I'ma cutter. I started cutting in 8th grade because one of my best friends got killed in a car reck, he was 13 and he didn't deserve to die, and I thought it should be me. It took me almost 2 months to accept that he was dead, and I turned to cutting. I mean I did open up to my friends and they tried to help, some of my friends knew I was cutting and they tried to stop me, but it didn't work. Then last summer, something happened to me, I was staying with my half-brother cause I was going to go down to the beach with him and his girlfriend and her family, and she was in the shower, and my brother was in his room, well his dad came out and sat on the couch beside me and started rubbing my leg and telling me things like ' tela, your a really pretty girl, and I love you just as much as I love josh. I've wanted you to stay here for a long time...' and he kept going on, and he was also holding my hand... I've never been so scared in my life, I haven't told anyone except my best friend, and she supports me, but I can't tell my parents because we don't get a long,and I just don't know what to do. I mean I have so much stress in my life, I mean of course all teens have stress, but when I'm really upset or stressed I turn to cutting,a and I want to stop I just don't know how I need help...
thanks
3 always & then some more...
Tela
xoxo