Is my ex just using me for sex?

I know this question is going to spark some people up but please no rude comments! ok my boyfriend and i broke up weeks ago i thought we were just going to be friends but after we broke up he started drinking, he also picked up a new girlfriend the same...

day we broke up (whom i had no idea about till a few days ago) started smoking and got himself mixed up with a gang a week ago he came to me drunk i was worried of course and invited him inside but then he started to get sexual with me i told him i wasn't going to have sex with him and he got really angry we fought for a little bit as he told me i wasn't a good friend to him because i wouldn't have sex with him later that night his brother comes to talk to me telling me to just have sex with him or i'll lose him all together i waited till he wasn't drunk and we had sex for the first time i still not knowing about the other girl. a day after we had sex he started to treat me like when we were together he told me how much he loved me called me baby and couldn't keep his eyes off me that night he asked for sex again scared i would lose him i did it again but the night after that we got into a fight it's been a few days he's drunk again and now i know about his girlfriend it just seems to me he's only using me for sex now.. i don't want to lose him as a friend but i don't like the thought of having to have sex with him just to stay friends. i always used to base my relationships on love thinking that sex was later after marriage. i don't know what to think or do. does he love me or is this all just for sex? why is he cheating on his new girlfriend and not even telling me about her?

Dont be flattered that your ex is coming to you for sex. Its not a compliment trust me! Anytime a person has to have sex with another person just to keep them in their life is lacking self confidence! He is just using you for sex hun. Never have sex with an ex. BIG MISTAKE! If you still have feelings for him, there is NO way that you will be able to be friends with him, because everything he does you will take very personally. Having sex with him will NOT bring him back to you if thats what you are thinking. It wont keep a relationship together either.

You are so much better without him. He will only make you miserable, because if you have to question everything he is doing to you...i think you know deep in your heart...whatever you had between you, is over!

When sex is used for the wrong reasons, it is meaningless!!

I went through the same thing with my ex. I thought if i had s*x with him once we broke up he would stay in my life. Well he did but only for s*x. If you keep him around and have him come over he is going to think your going to have s*x with him everytime and when you dont keep on giving it to him he will leave and it will make it harder for you. Trust me he is using you for s*x you guys broke up for a reason.... move on