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How can i stop being so shy?

Shark Atack Asked by funadvice over 2 years ago, 5 answers.

ok well am a girl as you can tell lol

well I think am ugly all my brothers friends make fun of me

and but the thing is am to shy

I don't shave my legs cause am to shy

and I don't wear a bra cause am to shy

and my hair and outfit is always...

ugly

please help me

Answered by bubux007 on Sep 18, 2007, 05:38AM
1955 answers

HAHAHA, you call yourself as wonderful_princess but you complain about that you are ugly. And the picture you uploaded here shows a nice girl. If you do not wear bra that is more exciting than you wore, and it is not good if you shave your legs at your age. If your outfit is not as neat as that of a Barbie, just makes you more attractive. The friends of your brother say sentences on your because they like you, but they are immature to show their emotions normally. I think you are a tomboy type girl and some years later all the boys around you will fall in love with you. Is this enough?

Sue90 Answered by sue90 on Sep 18, 2007, 06:12AM
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Dear wonderful_princess1193,
All the things you say you don't do because you're too shy are not from being shy they are from low self-esteem. You may be also suffering from depression. Not caring for oneself is a classical sign of both. Talk with your parent about seeking out some professional help. You are also seeking attention and this can be a sure sign of low-self esteem...get the help now so later in life you will be able to have successful relationships.
Sue...good luck

Answered by thuli on Sep 18, 2007, 08:29AM
11 answers

went through th same thing when i was at collage, people would say bad things about me that i was ungly bla! bla! Bla! but only to find out they admired me and wished they were me, from what i see you are very beatifull and blive me those guys would love to be your boyfriends.

this pic is more recent...last one was 5 yrs old Answered by getoverit on Sep 18, 2007, 10:39AM
34 answers

my brothers friends use to call me ugly and fat then when I got to highschool they would all hit on me behind his back...now who's laughing??? Go get a bra, hair cut, whatever makes you feel better...what makes you feel good is the way to go...other than drugs

Answered by ryoio21 on Oct 11, 2007, 02:45AM

well I am a guy but growing up i was painfuully shy. My brother was popular at school and always had his friends over with there pretty girlfriends, I would often hide away in my room or abuse drugs to hide te fear and anxiety, but it only made things worse. Finally I got fed up i cut my hair i dressed nicer and stoped being so shy i just went ahead and showed people my personality and to my suprise I became popular I realized that people really did like me the only person that really put me down was myself. Eventually i looked back to laugh at that goofy stage that I went through I married a very beautifull woman and we have a beutifull daughter. You are not ugly you just need to straiten up a bit and let loose with the real you I think you will be pleasantly suprized
good luck and never give up

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