I've tried everything to get over him

Okay so my boyfriend of 15 months broke up with me last week...I found out that he likes this girl that's soo much prettier than me. Ever since then, I've tried EVERYTHING to get over him but I just can't. Does anyone have any ideas of how I can get over...

himm? I don't really have friends I can talk to./:

k im srry and a good way to get over him is to try and find someone else but that mite not work it probably will just take a bit to get over him. im srry once again.
peace and good luck.

I have been in that situation and I understand how painful it is. I tried hooking up with a lot of guys to try to get over him but that is not the right way to go about it. This is something that takes time to get over and just remember that there is always something or someone better coming around the corner.

I tried to find someone else. But it's just not the same.):
I keep telling myself that there's somone better but it doesn't go through.
My friend's aren't even here for me to help me keep my mind off of him so I'm kind of stuck.):

aww gosh im in your position but we broke up 2 weeks ago and been together for 18 months and found out that a friend of mine liked me before me and my ex and kissed me, but yeah it doesnt feel the same.. Give yourself time and do what you enjoy the most, go out and meet new people, go shopping, make yourself look different. But if you need to talk to someone im right here /3

I can't stand the waiting...):
I'm wayy too shy to go out and meet new people._

its going to be hard to get over him because you guys were together
sooo long
I think you should be happy though that it didnt get any further
you see how much of a jerk he is...he dumped you for someone else
after going out with you so long thats crazy and I think you should be
happy that you dont have to be with someone like that

But the thing is he liked her after he broke up with me.
I think he's trying to move on or something.
I would be happy if he was really a jerk because then I'd be able to get over him easily.
But this isn't the case.):

Your not waiting for anyone... I found out my ex was cuddling with the girl for 9 hours and it was that day I was talking to him wanting to tell him how I felt but ditched me for her... and I know you dont want to meet someone else... I dont either... my ex made me believe in the things I refused to believe before and now he left it... we had our future ahead of us and he made me believe in it and like its gonna be there but then what? leave me and go off with another girl like what we've talked about before never happened?

This is the things you need to realize... if he did love you he would of taken time to get over you then start liking someone... like what were both doing. Time heals and time is what we need. No matter what we do we cant change how they feel. Just think of it the way I try to... If you had something amazing or something like that then something else or someone else is coming your way thats even better. I know its not something good to think cause you dont want to move on, but we have no choice... atleast we know we loved them right? Even if he is a jerk or not your still gonna miss him... no matter what even if you get over him in a few months you'll still find that you miss him even a single tiny bit. I dont feel that feelings I had for him when I see him anymore but I still end up crying cause thats just because we loved them.

If you really need someone to talk fun mail me

Aww I'm sorry.):
He made me believe we had a future together too...
The thing that makes me fall for him is, unlike other guys he never wanted me for the sex...and that's what most guys at my age want...

I can't even like anyone else if I tried, honestly.
I really can't wait...I'm extremely impacientt.
Grrr I know I love him.):

Aww... my ex didnt wanted me for sex too lol but he did sometimes force me but he wasnt like any other guys but still had his bad sides.

You need to learn to be patient, getting over someone is sommething you can do quickly over night, and yes I dont want someone else either, I kinda give up with the thought of being in another relationship and the thought of giving all of myself again to someone else...

I was the same as you for a week I was so depressed god I didnt have anyone to comfort me except some from friends by talking but for a week I was a mess... you wouldnt want to know what happened :P

Why dont you try and tell him how you feel? I did that before and we got back toogether but in the end he blamed me for everything so =/ but your ex might not.
Hang in there you'll make it through

It's been a week...I've gotten worsee.
I have no one to talk to besides people on here.
My friends don't really help at all.
I did try and tell him how I felt but he said it's too latee.)':

he said that?
=/ thats just mean... if he cared about you atleast he would have atleast comforted you and said all the good things that you two had..
Don't you know anyone you talk about your problems with? If you do ask them to take you out shopping or something to take your mind off him,
My friends are like that aswell, and I stayed in all the time and felt like I was going to die in depression but instead I did the most I can do at home to keep my mind away from him, like watch a movie with your mum or family and stuff like that and like play the guitar, piano and sing along and sing your heart out, just learn to let it go by doing something cause I did those and in a way it helped me release some emotion

Yeah he said that...
Nope...all he's thinking about right now is the bad things we had...
He said he would comfort me but then that'd make him want me and want to go out with me. Buttt he doesn't want that. .-.
There's no one I talk about my problems to...I always talk to him about my problemss.):
The problem is, if my mom sees me cry I'd be in serious trouble.
So I try to let it out by playing guitar but it doesn't work anymore.
I'm not capable of doing anything at this moment.
The only thing I can do is eat and cry.):

Aww... his stubborn right now, like my ex was. Give him time cause I think he over analyzed your problems and decided he couldnt take anymore... and yeah im the same with my mum, I cry myself to sleep and my mum knows by the way I look in the mornin heh and she gets upset... but why wont you tell your mum? Shes been there she should understand, I didnt tell mine but she knew what I was going through so she kept me company but other than that I cant help you, you can do this things, you just dont want to

I gave him time. He asked me to give him a week and I did...
My mom doesn't let me date and she has a problem with me crying.
So everytime she sees me cry she yells at mee.

im sorry you have to go through thast I raly am but only time will make it better I know its hard but you just have to think I can do better and you will eventualy get over it.
lots of love
~jessi