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Mom is getting nosy about my boyfriend

Asked by smitten 6 months ago, 4 answers.

my mom is getting really nosy when it comes to my boyfriend and I. she thinks I should break up with him and won't let me see him or talk to him outside of school. I tried talking to her and everything but that didn't help. how do I get her to back off...

and let me see him?

Answered by duckie242 on Apr 27, 2009, 03:19PM
67 answers

Have a serious talk with her. Tell her Mom, I want to let you know whats going on in my life right now but you keep shutting me down. I think you should give me a little of your trust here. I want to show you that I can be responsible. I dont want to keep secrets from you. I dont want to ruin our relationship but you're making it really difficult for me to go to you for advice or help. I'm a teenager. Teenagers have boyfriends and go out on dates. If you dont give me the chance to have a normal teenage life you initiate the sling shot effect. The more you pull me back the farther I'll go. If she still doesnt give you any slack then ask your friends if you can use them and tell your mom you're mom you're just going to hang out with you're friends and you can go see your boyfriend instead. If you get caught then stop caring. Just do whatever you want. Regardless of what she says, does, or thinks. It will drive her crazy and she'll eventually have a talk with you and this is when you tell her that you love her and you dont want to hurt her but she's pulling you back and you want her to be a part of your life but if she keeps smothering you then you wont want to let her in. Hope this helps! If you need any more advice feel free to hit me up with a message! :]

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Answered by mamak on Apr 27, 2009, 02:59PM
1006 answers

Does he not acknowledge her when he comes over? Does he act sexual or anything around you? Maybe his actions are making her uneasy. If not then she has the problem. I would tell her she is being difficult to reason with when it comes to your boyfriend.

Answered by angelfire2708 on Apr 29, 2009, 04:47PM
7802 answers

Well, it stems back to when you two were getting in trouble. She probably thinks he is a bad influence on you, and wants someone better for her daughter. Very understandable.

Answered by pinkdottedbow on Apr 30, 2009, 04:04AM
616 answers

Then only go out to safe places, talk to both of them, and don't bring him home, or your mother will only get angrier.

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