Is it bad to have this relationship?

Ok I have this boyfriend who is 17 and im 13( I dont think age matters at all!) its a long distance realtionship I live in wisconsin and he lives in kentucky! I love him with all my heart and I mean it!! And he means it too! But im having this...

realationship behind me parents back...my mom doesnt want me to have a boyfriend until im 18...but I think im mature enough and me and my boyfriend both think its wrong to have sex before marriage so nothing like that is ever going to happen!! But I have told my mom about dating ebfore and she always says no...and my dad whos an idiot always makes jokes about pulling otu the shotgun or whatever and I dont want him to find out because he would tell my mom about it and I dont want that to happen so im just wonering is this bad to do this even tho me and my boyfriend both love each other?

not really no. if you feel you don't want to tell them then don't. bear in mind that they will probably find out one day, they may be annoyed and ask why you didn't tell them. I am 13 too and I have had boyfriends. My mum doesn't mind though. I must admit you are quite far away from each other but it doesn't really matter. it's good that you agree on things with your boyfriend. In a way yes, it is bad. If it goes wrong, however scared you are of telling your parents, you should tell them. They will probably be annoyed/ angry at first but at least they can give you advice and help

At 13, yes age matters. You should not be dating someone that old and your mother has every right to be pissed off and not let you date them.

Honestly I dont think you know what love is.

Also, keeping things from your parents is the WORST idea. They will find out one day and lose all trust and respect for you. Do you realize how hard it is to get their trust back? Your parents have rules for a reaosn - they love you and are trying to protect you. Not only is your relationship wrong - it can be illegal.

Wow age does matter 13 with an almost 18 year I think your way to young to be dating and if you are going to date you need to date some one that is in your age group. And you shouldnt keep this from your mother like Mandyloo said one day they will find out and they will lose all trust and respect for you. It is very hard to get trust back from your parents once you have lost it. Your only 13 you may think your in love but your not.

but im going to be 14 in 2 months btw!

So what you are sitll to young to be dating a almost 18 year old boy I can see if you were like 15 almost 16 but your olay 13 almost 14 your still a little to young

my sister got married when she was 20 and her husband was 26!!! she new him when she was 18 and they dated for about 2 years! a lot of people thought she was way too young to date him but they have a really good marraige and their happy together!!

Well she was 18 your 13 see the differents.

yeah ik but still she was a teenager! your actually not an adult until your 20!

yeah ik that but when you turn 18 your legal to date a 20 year old