Should I finally forgive him?

Okay I need help, seriously!!! K well last year I had this fight witha dude that I knew for a long long time we used to be very cool frnds but then I found out by sumbdy that he wud talk about me bhind my back and he wud talk about my cuzin 2!!! every1 that knows me knows that if you talk about anyone in my family its on but sinc he was a frnd I decided just to not talk 2 him 4 a while well I kept hearing stuff so we just never ever talkd again but the thing is that I really really really miss him and I don't know if I shud 4giv him after all he did or just keep this on. Help???

if hes crap talking you hes not worth it...hes not a true friend. but you need to be sure he is and its not just a rumor that he is before you kill your friendship

I think I shud talk 2 um again but im not sure if its the best thing to do

Well if you expect least of him you can't be surprised if he does say something mean to you. Maybe he's matured in his time away from you and won't make the same mistakes as before. If you want to talk to him, go right ahead. Forgive and forget.