How to get over not trusting guys?

I havnt had a boyfriend in a longg time. like guys have been interested, but I've said no because I have a huge problem trusting guys. like I've never seen a funcinal relationship, my dad cheated on my mom. my aunts ex husban abused her. my sister has been cheated on by so many guys. and my older brother is a player, he treats girls like crap. ext.. and past boyfriends werent the best. I had this one boyfriend, we dated for amost a year, but he passed away while we were still dating, but that was yearsss ago.
how can I get over not trusting guys?

sounds like you think to much about how every1 elses relationship is going but you will get over it in time just think about the guys you pick first ask urself if he will b different get to no them first and then decide if he cant wait for your decicion then he aint worth a damn and just wanted to get some from you in time you will get over your fear just bcareful when you pick and tha kinda guys you pick dont pick tha billy badass guys more than likely they aint the ones to pick hope I was of some sort of help any questions just fun mail me

wow im sorry to hear about your boyfriend passing away and all the horrible relationships around you. Its very fair you cant trust guys. But not every guy should pay for everyone elses mistakes. I say, if a guy is interested, unless you know he has a reputation of being a player then rule him out. But if you dont know then get to know him, but keep your guard up. Remember TRUST is EARNED, dont give it right away and when the right guy comes, if he is worth it, he will work for it and prove you can trust him. Dont give up just yet, there are still good guys out there.

Hola, well this is what life is all about it. Living is wonderful and cruel at the same time. Beuaty htere is just one thing we can do always we got heart learn and forget, don't let those looser's out there to decide your happines on tomorrow. There is good guys out there and I am sure that a beautiful woman like you we found the right man.