Heartbroken and pregnant

Ok here is my dilema. I am 26 years old, and I live alone I have a decent paying job. My ex and I broke up up last yerar because he stated that he needed time to grow and to find his self, so who am I to stand in the way? So I backed up. I found out that...

he has another girlfriend, the same girl that he and I use to have disscussions about and he would say that she was only a friend. he didn't call me and I would call him and he never had time for me. So out the blue he started calling and coming around me again..So because I never got over him I allowed it. So I found out that his girlfriend is in the FEDS for smuggling drugs from columbia back into the states. so he is here with me every night and day. We did everything together, we even started back being intamate again. So I found out that I was six weekd pregnant and now he is saying that he doesn't want the baby because he can barely afford to feed himself, he is 30 may I add. So come to find out she is coming home tomorrow and I am feeling like he is saying he don't want the baby because he don't know how he is going to explain it to her. I have been his counter part all these months and now he is just going to use me and throw me away like I am nothing. I am furious that he is not willing to step up to the plate and be supportive of the baby when I know for a fact that he is going to find a way to take care of her, because it's not like she is going to be able to work with a freaking felony on her record, and she is 23. Not to mention his family lives in the same complex as me, so I have to see them and see him with her if he decides to bring her around here to see them. I am hurt and I feel betrayed. I up rooted myself from around my family to move out here with him. Sometimes I feel like I am too much for him, and that he wants someone that's beneth him, because why would he go backwards. we have 5 years in. I am just devastated and I don't know what to do..He keeps telling me that he loves me and that he is confused etc..but what about me?

The best advice anyone could give you is to move back to where your family is from. And if he doesn't want to willingly help with the baby, sue him for child support. He sounds like a real loser and you should kick him to the curb. You don't deserve to be treated that way, and that's all there is to it. Good luck and funmail me!

 
You deserve more out of life than this loser. Even with a child coming I'd break it off with him and start building your own life for you and the child. Mr. Right will come along, but you need to be available to recognize him.

Well as I read he's a loser and you deserve better than him, in every places there's guys that doesn't are really Man enough they think life is just a game. Hope you get some help with your family and you should get the child support for your baby.
Good luck...

***I am just devastated and I don't know what to do..He keeps telling me that he loves me and that he is confused etc..but what about me?***

Stop seeing him, he's only using you for sex (made blatantly obvious now). He's a flake, a liar, a two-timer, and a lousy choice for a potential father.

Now YOU have bigger problems, what are you going to do about the pregnancy? My only advice to you on this matter is this:

DON'T USE IT AS A WAY TO KEEP HIM IN YOUR LIFE!

I know what you're going through is hard but there's two parts to this situation: him as your partner and him as a father. He has proven to be lousy at both already and he has already made his choice, he broke it off with you to be with someone else and now doesnt want his baby. It's now obvious he's just using you since he only comes running back when his girlfriend is gone. The best advice I can give to you is drop him. Remember, sex wont make him yours and a baby wont make him stay. Move back with your family because supporting yourself and your child is the most important thing right now. Get child support and never forget God always has a plan. You're never alone.