How to deal with his games?

The Same quy has broken my heart about a dozen times..he keeps coming back and leaving me...how do I deal with this?

I like him soo much I cant say no when he comes back to me because its hard. but I know that it wont last and he'll break my heart...

once again...but he must feel something for me bc he keeps coming back right??
help please? =[

he knows that if he comes bak you'll take him back, be assertive with him or something and just be like HELL NO. not if you're just gonna dump and break my heart again.

Not to sound crude, but are you giving him anything? (sexual wise)

Is it worth the pain to really say YES each time and let him back!? Grow some CONFIDENCE! Love yourself! Dont let yourself get hurt! Why complain about how it hurts, if you just let the pain in each and every time!

to angelfire2708 : yeah we have had sex but just twice ..does that mean thats the only thing he wants?

Anyways you guys are right thanks for the advice. i gues i just have to be strong and say no next time he comes back

Of course. He keeps coming back to see if he'll get any. I know its hard for you to see...but he is just using you! Any decent, respectful guy would NEVER come to a girl for sex, and then leave her. If he truly had any genuine feelings for you, he would want to be with you. Just think about it. The longer you stay away from him, the easier it will be for you to see that its all just physical with him.

i know you are right... but its hard to just say no bc he was my first and im extremely weak when it comes to him...on the other i am trying relly hard to start over by deleting his number from my phone...

You're trying to blame him. But it's only half his fault. You're also to blame. Have you ever heard the phrase, ''fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice (or dozens of times) shame on me''.

lol guess i forgot about that...

Its not all your fault. When a girl puts her heart into something she never wants to take it away becuase a girl's heart is filled with lots of things that give her confidence,empowerment,andsupport. when you lose it it feels like a void doesn't it?
Find a new guy but before you do you must evaluate what you did wrong and what went wrong. Don't knock the hard times every hard time is a learning experience so its not a total loss. Be strong and think about it a little. Does he love you for who you are? Find someon who does it won't be hard. Take it easy and be yourself. Anyone who cant accept you the way you are isn't worth your time.