How can i get revenge on my cheating ex?

Me and my 1st has been together for 6 years. I found out that he was cheating on me (this happen 3 days ago) and I love him very much. I would do anything for him. So I came over to see if we can put things back together, but when I came he had a girl...

upstairs in his room. I was so hurt so we started arguing because I was so hurt. He had her walking pass me like everything was ok. So she asked him who do he want to be with and he said her!!! I don't understand why I loved him with every thing I had and I hurt because it's depressing to me. I thought we could be but I guess we wasn't how can I get revenge? I need guidance through this depressing issue.

im sorry what happened and i hope that never happens with me and by baby... who owns the house? you or him? if you then kick him out and get all of his things out.. try and move on i know that if you keep talking to him its only going to annoy him and that wont help at all... its going to be hard but i know you can do it

Trying to get revenge is a waste of time. Any person that cheats is a dog in my book. If your gonna cheat STAY SINGLE! Get as far away from him as possible. You dont want someone that you've lost total trust in. It is very hard to gain back. Its gonna be tough for you because he was your first. Its very rare that we end up with our first loves. Thats why they are called first love. Theres nothing you can do if he wants to be with the other girl. You just have to move o, like the rest of us did from our first loves!

Listen--revenge binds you to the other person and you don't want to be bound to someone like that. There is no point. He does not want to be with you. He's a jerk, yes. But revenge is a tactic that is LOWER than the one he did on you and in the end, it isn't going to reverse time and take away what happened. It's over. The best thing to do is move on, take the high road and give your energy to CONSTRUCTIVE things that build the best you that you can be. These are learning experiences--learn from it. Don't just become another dumb ass chick who loves some jerk. These guys don't deserve our love! Wouldn't it be nice to go to Starbucks, get your favorite drink, buy yourself some shoes instead, and enjoy the summer single and ready to mingle?
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Revenge is nothing and wont make you feel better, 6 years is a long time and it sounds to me he just got bored and decided to be mean instead of letting you go and cheated, now he humiliated you infront of this girl, dont worry about her, shes prob stressing out right now thinking if he can cheat of her he can cheat on me so she wont be able to trust him and they wont last, but he decieved you, for 6 years you were faithful to this guy, now its time to put him behind you, i know its going to take a long time esp since this only happened 3 days ago, but give it lots and lots of time and you will start to heal, Focus on you for a while and no one else and get your strength back. It will happen it just all takes time.

My sonofab**ch husband has been cheating on me for 6 months and thinks that I don't know about it. I've been suspicious for some time but just confirmed it this past weekend. When I last tried to ask questions he got very angry and almost punched me. He's gotten violent in the past so I'm very scared and not sure what to do. I want him to hurt as badly as he's making me hurt!

How can I get back at him? His number is two one four five four nine two zero three seven.. scared in Texas and in need of help.

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Men always do this.. It's happened to me. And I know what you're saying when you said you want to get revenge. It's the only way you can move forward, because it's giving you a little bit of relief. All of the people saying revenge isn't the way forward obviously haven't gone though this themselfs - they have no idea what it feels like to be humiliated like this, to be stabbed in the back by someone you love! It is one of the worst feelings in the world. And it's horrible knowing that they're together, or that there's nothing you can do!
So get revenge, you'll figure out what it is - seize every oppertunity you can get! It's a little bit of personal relief, and is a brilliant feeling.
When me and my two daughters found out my husband was having an affair with the nanny that lived with us and looked after us everyday, we were furious. He then decided that they were going to live together! So my daughters snuck into his house and put hair removal creme in the shampoo and conitioner, they both went bald!!

its not only men
my girlfriend Barbra Jean Vanfossen for 2 years has been cheating on me
I've lost 12 lbs
havent eaten I throw up just thinking of her
I havent sleept in 3 weeks
since I found out what she has been doing...
I had a feeling she was cheating
but when id ask she get mad at me.
she bipolar and had her ex boy friend follow us around for 2 years threnting smashing my car window.
I at first did not understad how he know where we were or
what we were doing untill now
she started to do it to me
calling me to meet her some were
and she would be with another guy...while we were going out and after she broke up with me,...
she borrowed a lot of money a few days before she broke up with me .
I really want to hurt my self to get back at her

thanks
edward form northeast PA