He still doesnt want a handjob

My boyfriend went down on me for the first time last nite he really turns me on and it was amazing .hes been fingering me for a while and I really enjoy it recently I've offered a handjob and he's said hes not ready.I feel even more confused after last...

nite it would seem hes ready to give me oral he still doesnt want even a handjob.what should I do?

I really need advice!!urgently whats wrong with me!!!this cant be healthy.

Some people would rather give than receive pleasure (weird, yep, but people have all kinds of desires, etc).

So, given that he made you feel good...perhaps you should just concentrate on getting him to make you feel good again?

I agree, often some people prefer to make another person happy. ENJOY IT, that is part of it. Your boyfriend may be more amenable AFTER youve come...or it could be if you havent than he feels he doesnt have the right to orgasm until you do. Whatever the case just ask him if you can do anything for him when he is done pleasuring you. By then, he should be ready to tell you.