He's still texting her(ex girlfriend)

Okay so a little while ago I posted this question about how my boyfriend still texts his ex girlfriend. Well he PROMISED me he stopped and then one day she texts him and is all like are you mad at me?? and im like okay he's ignoring her. Well the other...

day I got suspicous so when he went to the bathroom I looked at his texts...I know I know its not a nice thing to do but get this...HE WAS TALKING TO HER!!! And I know its sad but I couldn't text that night so basically he says he was down and just needed a friend. The texts had crap about how she misses him and wishes she could hug him and about how she loves him and she was using OUR WORD!!! again in another question I posted she was talking about what was suppose to be our song!! I blew up on him and told him I hated him. He says he just needed a friend and that other than me she's the only one he can really be his self with. what should I do?? IT REALLY hurts that he would lie and I don't really know what to think. Should I tell him its her or me or should I just let it go even though it REALLY bothers me??? Tell me what should I say to him???

Ok, let me start... Theres nothing wrong with him talking to his ex girlfriend. Nothing at all. As long as he doesnt have feelings for her, then thats fine.
It was wrong that you went through his phone.
You invaded his privacy and you had NO right to do so.
Don't get so angry about this situation.
Be angry at her, not him.
Shes the one telling him that she loves him, not the other way around, right?
I think you need to talk to your boyfriend AND his ex.
Let her know that she needs to back off. That he is with you now, and not her. She had her chance and she blew it.
Then you need to talk to your boyfriend.
Let him know that you are totally crushed that he lied to you
But you need to get over the fact he still talks to her. Because there is nothing wrong with that.
You also need to ask the important question of weather he has feelings for her still.
You need to be completely calm when you are talking to him about this.
If you are shouting at him, he will just think you are trying to control his life.
Just communicate.
If things get out of hand and he has feelings and you can't cope with their communicating... maybe you should consider ending the relationship.
To make yourself happier...and possibly him as well.
Good Luck x

You invaded his privacy when (if you put everything) he's not doing anything wrong...

So what if he still talks to her? As long as he isn't doing anything it doesn't matter. They can still be friends and you should accept that.

You and your boyfriend don't own a song and you don't own a word. For you to freak out after going through his phone without his permission and tell him you hate him, that just kind of makes you over emotional.

lol no I didn't put EVERYTHING believe me theres A LOT more like that fact that he didn't want me talking to any of MY exboifriends and yea we don't own anything but when your a couple and you have certain things that you do like for example the song was suppose to be our song and I found out it wasn't it had been theres first. Also the fact that I told him I didn't like it and he swore up and down on EVERYTHING that he didn't like her and hated her and didn't want to tlk to her anyways. And theres a lot more to it too. Like I don't know I feel wrong for not wanting him to tlk to her but at the same time they were together for so long and it's hard because it's like I don't want him thinking about everthing they've done like kissed and touched and stuff everytime he tlks to her. Im afraid old feelings will arise because they were wit each other for a YEAR